College was lonely, and you ended up dropping out — how can you make a better choice next time? Also: a reader wants to know when in the dating process…
A reader feels consistently “stung” by women who date men after dating her. Another needs help deciphering an ambiguous situation with someone they’re super interested in.
She wants an open relationship and you’re worried that she’s just not that into you anymore. Also; a reader struggling to get over a tumultuous previous marriage and move on…
Having children was in your wedding vows — but now the world sucks so bad that you’ve changed your mind. Also: how to eat her out without breaking out.
Who owes who when someone’s got a safety net and someone else doesn’t? Also, is it okay to pocket an inheritance while preaching radical wealth redistribution?
A lesbian struggles with her trans boyfriend’s growing disconnection from queer community and identification. Also, we have another classic quandry: Two Bottoms, One Relationship.
You’re still sexting the friend you hooked up with at a wedding — but she has a boyfriend. Also; you fear your partner’s Chat GPT therapy habit is ruining your…
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