You have a solution to how you’ve been feeling about your unemployment, but your girlfriend isn’t so sure. Also, another reader is upset that all of her friends have slept…
You came out to your wife as a trans lesbian and the more you fully embrace your queerness, the more it hurts that your wife can’t. Also; another reader is…
A reader wishes she had a little bit more financial freedom in her relationship, and another wonders if it’s okay for a messy apartment to be a dealbreaker.
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“She’s the same great golden retriever girlfriend throughout the entire month though, and I feel terrible for being so mean and angsty at her during my luteal phase.”
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