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The rapper Da Brat in a bright puffy vest, and her wife is holding her hands in a off shoulder red dress with a high slight on her thigh. They look happy and in love, with green trees glowing alit in the background.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Da Brat Rings in the Holidays as Santress and Mrs. Claus!

Janet Mock and the cast of “Pose” out for an iconic girls’ night out, Chef Melissa King carefree in a pile of leaves, and Janelle Monáe is a Saturday knight.

Christina Tucker December 9, 2020 6 Comments
A collage of Aisha Tyler and Charlize Theron
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Aisha Tyler and Charlize Theron Want to Play Lesbian Wives in a “Die Hard” Remake

Queen Latifah’s got a new thriller coming to Netflix, the Glee cast honors Naya Rivera with a holiday fundraiser, Jules’ Eurphoria special episode is on the way, and you absolutely should watch Viola Davis’ full 60 minutes interview.

Heather Hogan December 9, 2020 6 Comments
A still from the series "One Day at a Time" in which Elena Alvarez falls into the arms of her mother Penelope and cries.
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: “One Day at a Time” Officially Cancelled, We’ll Be Crying Into Our Cafecitos Forever

Water is joining gold and oil in being traded on Wall Street, so that’s bad. Also: an all-Muslim girls’ basketball team is kicking ass and an ad hoc awards show for the weird internet culture of quarantine.

Carmen Phillips December 8, 2020 5 Comments
The cast of Derry Girls in the Great British Bake Off tent.
TV Reviews

The Derry Girls on Great British Bake Off Is the Only Good Thing to Happen in 2020

“See, in Ireland, we love slime. It’s traditional that we have slime for the New Year. So, please don’t dis the culture of my people.” 

Heather Hogan December 8, 2020 12 Comments
There is a black gift on the background with an A+ logo on it. The graphic reads 13 Days of A+ in a bright lavender that stands out.
Straddleverse

Announcing 13 Days of A+! We’re Unwrapping Some Super-Secret Member Gifts This Month

Starting December 13 and going through December 25, you can check back every day for a new Autostraddle Plus treat. From two new installments of S L I C K, to Merry Fistmas: A Virtual Vaginal Fisting Workshop, a Holigay Cooking AMA and more — we’re celebrating the A+ Members who make this queer community possible.

Nico December 8, 2020 1 Comment
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Book Lists

Eight Fat Positive Queer Books Featuring Queer Fat Characters in All Their Glory

Eight great fat positive queer books featuring queer fat characters in all their glory: teen superheroes, fashionista bloggers, bisexual nannies, lesbian home economists, self-deprecating humorists, wannabe K-Pop stars, and more!

Casey December 8, 2020 13 Comments
Aubrey Plaza holds up a tarot card while wearing a black cape.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

Watch Aubrey Plaza Do a Tarot Card Reading and Play F*ck/Marry/Kill With Some Witches

“Maleficent? I’d F the B out of the W.”

Heather Hogan December 8, 2020 3 Comments
Cheryl Dunye in Mommy Is Coming
Movie Reviews

“Mommy Is Coming”: Cheryl Dunye’s Self-Reflexive Sex Comedy Dissects and Embraces the Erotic

Sex is weird, and this movie leans into that without pretending to have all the answers.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya December 8, 2020
A collage of some of the best movies of 2020 from our list, including: The Prom, Ma Rainey's Black Bottom, Harley Quinn, and The Half of It
Movie Lists

The Best Queer Movies of 2020

We got superhero movies! Teen comedies! Christmas movies! Oscar bait! Musicals!!!!

Drew Burnett Gregory December 8, 2020 43 Comments
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Christmas Sex Toys Sponsored

Wet for Her for You: A 2020 Holiday Gift Guide

Happy Holidays hotties! It’s time for my quick and easy gift guide filled with toys from my favorites — the babes at Wet For Her! I went through the site with a perfectly manicured nail to find the best gifts to give yourself, your partner, and even for playing sexy virtual Santa with your friends.

Guest December 7, 2020 3 Comments
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Breakups

#PolyamoryProblems: How Do I Know When It’s Time To Break Up?

The idea of breaking up, and/or transitioning your relationship to platonic as somehow a failure or throwing something away is one of those pesky ideas we need to unlearn.

DaemonumX December 7, 2020 1 Comment
Aubrey Plaza and Kristen Stewart in Happiest Season
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Clea DuVall Doesn’t Think You’d Leave Your Longterm Girlfriend Either, Even For Aubrey Plaza

A history of Black women in James Bond movies, Mandip Gill would also love to see a Yaz/Thirteen romance on Doctor Who, Hollywood is prepping to sacrifice movie theaters, Queen Latifah’s Equalizer will follow the Super Bowl, and more!

Heather Hogan December 7, 2020 21 Comments
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Movie Features

Jamie Babbit on “But I’m a Cheerleader,” Barbie Sex, and Getting Bad Reviews

“That’s my whole junior high experience: No, I don’t want to be friends with you. I actually want to have sex with you.”

Drew Burnett Gregory December 7, 2020 15 Comments
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Stands With Enby

Starting and maintaining online and long-distance relationships, the impacts of your attachment style, mourning your “almost” relationships and more.

Ryan Yates December 6, 2020 4 Comments
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Recipes

The Dyke Kitchen: Bold, Tingly, Spicy Mapo Tofu

When I went to college at Oberlin, where my parents met, I found out that my mom had not only been in the MOST hippie-dippie of co-ops, which was appropriately vegan, but was the head tofu maker there too. So I began to learn what she loves about tofu.

Kamala Puligandla December 5, 2020 19 Comments
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Webcomics

Baopu #80: Meet Me For Infinite Tea

I have this reoccurring dream, where I run into my grandma while taking a walk. I’m missing the reunions we could have had this year, and looking at this separateness with bitter-sweet intention.

Yao Xiao December 5, 2020 8 Comments
In "Filthy Rich" Daisy, a woman with a brunette ponytail, kisses Becky, a blonde woman with her hair swept to the side, at the lower part of her neck. It's small and intimate.
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Binge “Filthy Rich” and This Tawdry Christian Gay Love Affair Is Yours

Plus updates on “Station 19” and both seasons of “Coroner,” get in here!

The TV Team December 5, 2020 20 Comments
A pair of nitrile gloved hands fill an injection needle from a bottle.
Politics + Activism

Extra! Extra!: What Do We Actually Know About a COVID-19 Vaccine Rollout?

This week’s Extra! Extra! returns with some LGBTQ+ news from both sides of the Atlantic; an update on the COVID-19 pandemic, the havoc it’s wreaking in so many areas of life and the vaccine arms race; and rapidly deteriorating situations the world over.

the team December 4, 2020 32 Comments
Aleyse Shannon in Black Christmas
Christmas Movie Features

Home Alone for the Holigays: Watch “Black Christmas” with Dani Janae

Welcome to Home Alone for the Holigays! Where our writers welcome you to spend the day with them virtually and live-tweet one of their favorite holiday films. Come kick it with Dani, watch Black Christmas and have a mocktail or two.

danijanae December 4, 2020
Rue and Jules in bed on Euphoria
TV Reviews

“Euphoria” Returns With a Wonderful and Frustrating Zendaya Tour De Force

I ship Zendaya’s Rue and Hunter Schafer’s Jules like some people shipped Brittana.

Drew Burnett Gregory December 4, 2020 4 Comments
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