Why Can’t I Share a King Bed With My Ex?

It's truly platonic, but my new girlfriend isn't convinced!
Q:
My ex and I were together for five years. We had a mutual breakup a few months ago, and want to stay friends. We’ve also had to stay roommates, for a few reasons, mainly that we don’t have a ton of money and the real estate market where we live really sucks, so we’re riding out the end of the lease. I’m actually going to be moving to a different place, two hours away to be with my new girlfriend. I know that sounds crazy!! But I am really madly in love with her.
Which brings me to the problem: my ex and I have been sleeping in the same bed. It’s a king bed, we don’t touch, the bedroom is the only room with AC in it, and the other option is the couch in the living room where it’...

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