Can I ask them why I wasn't invited?
Q
Is there a good or clean way to ask friends why you weren’t invited to their wedding lol? Two friends I’ve been close to for over a decade are getting married this spring and I have gradually realized that I am the only one in our group of friends who was not invited. We never had a falling out or anything. I haven’t been as close with them recently because they moved, but other friends who still live where I live were invited. I just feel sad because I want to celebrate their love alongside our friends.
A
Summer: Huh. Yeah, that is odd. There wasn't an obvious falling out or gradual disconnect? Known them for over a decade? But still no invite? And it's not a distance issue?
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