Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!

Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

Blowbacks? Classic coming out stuff! Plus, Rose says they’re not a girl and Charlotte handles it like a champ.

Any movie in which sisters reunite to kill bad boyfriends feels like Christmas to me, okay?

Is it a date or are we just friends? Why not both! This week we’re talking about fucking your friends with Autostraddle Community Editor and fucking your friends expert Vanessa Friedman.

It was at this point in the series where I decided it should be renamed Gays Having Intense Conversations Under Fuzzy Blankets.

The writers seem more interested in giving fans the pairing they wanted to see after season two rather than developing Aneesa as a nuanced character in her own right.

Plus updates on S.W.A.T., NCIS: Hawai’i, and Sue Bird’s retirement status.

Carrie gets a new hip, Charlotte’s kid gets a new name, and Miranda gets some gay sex.

Plus updates on 9-1-1, The Rookie: Feds, Queen Sugar, All American, Station 19 and Survivor!

Immobile iguanas possible.

Drew and Kayla discuss why they love the sequels, the first times they watched these movies, and the fact that Reloaded is the horniest Matrix installment.

Not all of our personal faves made it into our Top 25 Best LGBTQ TV Shows of 2021 list, so here’s our chance to tell you all about them.

The second and final series of In My Skin is one of the best seasons of television I’ve ever seen.

Plus updates on Top Chef, A Million Little Things, and 9-1-1.

To roughly quote Lady Bird: “You’re not gonna get in a car with a guy who texts, are ya?” Alas, she does.

“As someone who’s never actually been in a throuple, I do think that throuples could solve most problems on television.”

This is very last minute but apparently tonight there will be a lunar eclipse during what is called a “full beaver moon,” which just seems like something y’all would be into.

We’ve always been here.

I felt even more galvanized by the queer anti-capitalist characters I had come to know so well — and felt seen in the small choices I made to work towards an anti-capitalist future.