This is how it feels to come to art too late. It’s no longer an experience of immediate connection, but one of processing, of rewriting.

Fall TV is back, baby! We’ve got updates on Monarch, House of the Dragon, Vampire Academy, New Amsterdam, Queen Sugar, and more!

You got us WELL PAST OUR GOALS! Thank you, thank you! We hope you’re proud of what you’ve accomplished these past two weeks!

How do you stop comparing yourself to your girlfriend’s nesting partner, have big life conversations with your partner, deal with feeling your friends don’t love you as much as you love them, and more?

10 years before Ellen, 25 years before Santana (and if you’re keeping track — 35 years from today), Blanche Devereaux launched the joke that just will not die.

Cinema has been in decline post-Mean Girls.

Sunita Deshpande and Cameron Esposito play a queer couple in space, but this mostly straight rom-com is too terrestrial to stand out.

It’s a big deal to have a trans girl character who is wearing a binder! I wish I trusted Sam Levinson to get into it more and to do it well.

“Well, if the ceiling collapses, at least it won’t fall on us because this section of ceiling is already missing.”

And also updates on Station 19’s heartbreaking return, Harlem’s season finale, Fantasy Island, A Million Little Things, the Equalizer, The Rookie: Feds, The Watchful Eye, and Truth Be Told. It was a big week, get in here!

What terrible advice would you give your 16-year-old self just to see what kind of hell you could unleash on the world?

I played Charades with my family on Christmas Day and none of them had heard of Portrait of a Lady on Fire!

I put a lot of pressure on myself to learn and revel in the customs of “our people,” which meant that I always included a small scoop of the fish salad on mine and then tried to avoid it the rest of the night.

“LOL yeah, I lusted for those spencers sex toys so bad”

Advice on studying with ADHD, envying they/them pronouns, finding the best outfits to match glamorous heels, masturbation, and more!

The truth is, as hard as I ride for it now, there was a time when I couldn’t imagine living here anymore, too.

She was OUR Batwoman, and we’ll never forget who “our” is.

“For some of us, that will always be our relationship to gender. I’m a woman. I’m trans. I’m non-binary. All those words feel right for me. But I’m still naked walking down that dark alley a little unsure of who I’m meant to be.”

Carson learns about underground queer bars, Max learns how to be herself and not what others expect of her, the gay Peaches learn they have each other.

Not like you NEED a need backstory to enjoy Sara Ramirez strutting around in a suit.