So you’ve recently come out to your family, and it’s the first time you’ve been to holigay dinner since it happened. Autostraddle is here to help you through it.

Lena teaches Stef to twerk, says the phrase “heteronormative thinking,” continues to be flawless.

Holigay time means good food, good friends, and hopefully bearable family, along with approximately a million and one parties of differing fanciness levels. I’m going to take you through a few different outfits so that you’re gonna be the best dressed queer at every party you attend!

What do you do when you’ve done everything “right” and you are still mistreated? You take it to the streets. You take your rage and pain and power you make people listen. You burn and you scream and you keep screaming until someone else shows up and offers you a hand.

The season finale of Transparent!

Lesbian mistletoe smooches, omniscient death threats, and the return of Mona Vanderwaal!

“I’m attracted to more than one gender, but am not sure what label to use. “Queer” resonates with me, but am I contributing to bisexual erasure if I don’t ID as bisexual?”

Drone Boning, explaining scissoring to straight people, not being a jerk in bed and more.

This week on “Faking It,” Amy doesn’t win Miss Congeniality, but neither does Lauren, and neither does Karma. Neither does Liam! Or Duke or Shane or Reagan. But everybody’s hair looks GREAT.

After you eat your turkey and drink your eggnog, come on in and cuddle up.

Come out, come out, wherever you are! The Autostraddle team gives you tips on how to come out to your friends.

Rough sex, vanilla, voyeurism, kegels, queer sex workers and more.

The difference between theory and practice in non-monogamy, legitimizing your own sexual desire, vaginas that smell like peaches and more.

“As a white woman, you may not understand this but the simple act of getting up and being in the public eye and proclaiming your transness unapologetically is an act of revolution for every trans person of color, and in that right, they are doing the work.”

In “The Devil Wears Land’s End,” Mindy accidentally goes on a date with a lesbian and then her butch girlfriend shows up AND IT’S JULIE GOLDMAN.

“Welp, I just came out! And everything sucks! I don’t know how I’m feeling! Let’s have a fight and have sex.”

Get those ten vibrators into this cat cafe with your gal pal, STAT. We’ve got business to take care of.

I never had to think to myself, “where are the people that look like me?” because they were there, in abundance, everywhere I looked.

“Let’s take a moment of silence for all of us women in the U.S. who did not know until this season that in Canada y’all throw axes for fun, and who are now contemplating crossing the border. I can’t be the only one whose world was rocked this hard by axe throwing.”

Emily meets her girlfriend’s husband, and Hanna dances like she’s possessed by the Holy Ghost.