This week on NSFW Sunday: couples with roommates, feminist porn, bike smut, and tasting the rainbow in your pants.

Is the era of polyamory over? Are more queer people returning to monogamy? Or is it just a shift in the cultural conversation?

This week on NSFW Sunday: sexual history, Dita Von Tesse, and non-monogamy.

This is an art attack. This is an art attack. This is NSFW Sunday Lesbosexy Art Attack!

I’m so sorry the people you’re around have made you feel unwelcome because you don’t follow their narrow definition of what being a queer woman looks like.

Two months ago, we lost Deborah Sundahl — a fierce, compassionate, and prolific queer elder.

I was a late bloomer when it comes to all things sex and sexuality.

Not everyone was surprised when I came out as a lesbian, but a few people were. Most notably: my boyfriend at the time.

Here are some of the most memorable movies in the canon of “films that have significant lesbian sex in them.”

The reason I wanted to write about this experience is explicitly to say to other fat brides that buying a dress does not have to be a negative experience.

If you’re wondering what some queer people who aren’t me are thinking about when it comes to getting engaged and wedding planning (or not wedding planning), this installment of Blush and Bashful is for you.

An erotic witch comic, the new hot dating app keyword, why asexuality should be part of sex education and more.

To live out a love that is healthy, queer, non-mongamous has been a source of deep personal transformation.

There is, of course, no such thing as a perfect or universal dildo. However, if we were, for a moment, to pretend that there is a most-likely-to-fit-your-needs dildo for most folks who are interested in one, the Magnum really might be it.

“The first months of Lex were frenzied and horny and I loved it so much. Even if I didn’t match with anyone I loved the energy. Now it’s people talking about longing and dread and looking for roommates?”

“Through frank conversations with cross country mates and cheeky hints in coming-of-age films, I learned that masturbation is something people do to their vaginas with fingers, shower heads and (though I often doubted it) hairbrush handles. I intrinsically knew that what happened when I pressed my thighs together and held my breath was masturbation, too, but as my Encyclopedia of Wank expanded with no reflection of my own methods, it became clear that I was missing a fundamental element of jerking off.”

A queer woman’s guide to top/bottom culture, why it’s fine if you haven’t had a serious relationship, why to post your lesbian thirst trap and more.

Happy holidays! And by “happy” I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag episode!

Love to get off on a super sexy cake sitting but get a sympathetic yeast infection almost immediately? These food-shaped sex toys are for you.

It’s a CROSSOVER SPECIAL! We’re joined To L and Back Analyssa Lopez! We’re talking about first dates — the who, the what, the where, the why, AND the how.