“One time my coworker asked if I could dress any dykier and you know what? I don’t know. It’s pretty gay.”

I miss camp so much the only cure I could think of was some kind of comfort food that involves berries – only one type though – and that I could make very quickly and easily. I decided the only thing to do was to bake a mountain of berries into some flaky buttery crust and eat it while I scroll the A-Camp hashtag and cry for the millionth time. And thus, this blueberry galette was born!

“I’M YELLING AT YOU BUT ONLY TO TELL YOU YOU’RE GREAT.”

Also, Lena Waithe gives you the eye and Samira Wiley will totally hold that for you.

Do you know a little bit too much about murder and cults and stuff? So do we!

They say you learn your first lessons about how to be a person from your family, and that applies to chosen family, too. Today we’re sharing something we learned from watching another Autostraddle staffer that’s made our life better and brighter.

Queer, bisexual and lesbian trans women exist and thrive and belong here.

Perhaps he would have loved me enough. I’ll never know, and my eschatology doesn’t include a heaven from which re-embodied souls watch over our earthly lives. All I have is speculation about how he might have reacted to his daughter’s bisexuality, and to his daughter not being precisely a daughter at all.

Every day we stray further from Darren.

This Month: Proper protocol for casual sex with strangers, combating internalized fatphobia, lots of trans feelings, and how to apologize when its 100% your fault. Plus, what to do when it’s time to divorce him and come out already!

In honor of the Feminist Disney Sing-along at A-Camp, we’ve compiled this very important list. Where did you favorite Disney princess come out on the list?

Also, Brittani Nichols is hosting a fashion show and Evan Rachel Wood is being queerly influenced.

Sometimes, you just gotta kiss your gal pal in front of everyone at gay conversion camp.

Working at Autostraddle has been my dream job and it’s been my dream community, but it’s time for the next phase in my life, so I need to say goodbye.

I choose her, always, because she’s my home and my light.

Also: Tessa Thompson is your favorite cocker spaniel in the new Lady and the Tramp, Shonda Rhimes really wanted Callie back for Arizona’s last episode, Ruby Rose quit Twitter over Batwoman backlash, Sarah Paulson and Sandra Oh finally met and chatted about how brilliant they both are, and more!

It’s our last TV list of 2018!

The age-old challenge: what to get for your rad, free-thinking, take-no-BS, burn down the cisheteropatriarchy, revolutionary friend or loved one? Capitalism sucks. These gifts don’t!

What Shapeshifters has done here is made binders where the point of them goes beyond the normal utilitarian point of a binder. And honestly? We deserve that!

You’re so cool and I want to hang out with you and talk about how cool you are! Want to see some pics of my baby at the zoo? I want to see your pics, too! Just get in here!