Stef and Lena take down the pillow wall, get naked … and talk about their kids.

10 Legend of Korra and Adventure Time fics to keep you warm on this cold weekend.

Look at how witty and creative and beautiful you are, as usual.

Jasika Nicole and Claire Savage delivered a perfect mix on an actual CD and it was perfect.

What do you want your 2015 to look like? We need to know right now.

Topics include RENT, the Universal Life Church, Fanny Howe, family farms, The Handmaid’s Tale, Reese Witherspoon, Law & Order and more!

Also, Jane the Virgin introduced a lesbian subplot we’ve never seen before.

These are our favorite Bruce Springsteen songs and the stories of how and why we love them.

Nancy Kates’ new documentary, now airing on HBO, is a portrait of the queer woman who made knowledge sexy.

“It’s so important to do what makes you feel centered and strong again as a QTPOC trying to deal with this country right now. It would have taken Herculean levels of self-care to come close to what one Speakeasy Google Hangout did for me last night.”

Topics include TJ Maxx, Chris Rock, internet trolls, Oral Roberts, Ruth Thalia, Dunkin’ Donuts and more!

Get 20% off Autostraddle Merch all day for Cyber Monday AND get a free copy of Lumberjanes #5 with any apparel purchase!

Perhaps you have a musical person in your life and you’d like to buy them a present! We can help you with that.

Sweatshirts, hotshorts and boxer-briefs are ready for the taking. And by “taking” I mean “purchasing.” And by “purchasing” I mean supporting queer media-makers while looking good. PLUS YOU’LL GET A FREE ISSUE OF LUMBERJANES!

In which we get a dozen different emotions for the price of one.

Is “Fatshion” still a thing we’re saying? Either way, here’s some cool clothes to add to your wishlist.

Money makes the world go ’round and also you need it to pay for things because capitalism. So let’s talk about relationship finances after moving in together.

Leslie Feinberg died at home in Syracuse, NY, with hir partner and spouse of 22 years, Minnie Bruce Pratt, at hir side. Hir last words were: “Remember me as a revolutionary communist.”

Oh, also, a baby reindeer.

It’s Stef’s 31st birthday and we have so many birthday cards for her — and YOU made them!