More queers use dating apps compared to straights; disclose your strep as well as your STI before hooking up; bussy; sex stains; and more.

TikTok and porn aesthetics, the fisting emoji obvs, how to initiate sex without feeling awkward and more.

What it means to have a sex drive, why the widespread idea of how the vibrator was invented is rooted in patriarchy (also, wrong), the story of LA’s trans-inclusive strip club night and more.

Vintage lesbian porn, conviction as a way to access desire, the dating apps selling your data to third parties and more.

I don’t know what to tell you, there’s a candle that smells like vagina. Plus, what snacks to bring for a threesome, how to fuck in acrylics, and more.

Today – January 5th – is the busiest dating app day of the year. Plus: A vibrator is a CES finalist, don’t live with your ex, and how to set boundaries around rough sex.

Your asshole is a swirling vortex. Plus: how to have sex in your childhood bedroom, a first orgy story, and why there’s no perfect person for you.

Why does autocorrect think you want to sext about ducks? Is Peloton porn about to take off? How do you tell a partner you don’t like their style?

Laneia reviews The Best Erotica of 2009! Also; Sarah Silverman loses her virgnity, sexy tumblr alert, Lost masters of Pornography, slut-shaming, power bottoms, mashed potatoes and Jiz Lee!

The ’70s orgy cookbook you never knew you needed. Plus: the best sex toys of 2019, how to have a sex dream and more.

Chronic pain and sex, adopting the enemies of your longterm partner as your own, bad sex writing, saying no to sexting, and more!

How do you tell if you’re horny? Why is love bombing manipulative? Why do first break-ups suck the hardest? What do you do if not everyone likes you?

Pets! Sometimes they eat your sex toys or underwear or bondage rope or whatever. Has this happened to you? Let’s discuss.

Settling, sending “we need to talk” with no context and texting your ghosts are all boring. Plus: how sex workers are leading the fight against mass surveillance, anal sex stats, a new trans dating app and more.

Horny people lie more, stop calling sex shops sleazy, how to dump someone you love and more.

Why censoring sex works impacts everyone, life in Tinder purgatory, supporting a partner with sexual trauma and more.

Rising STI rates, what you need to know about at-home testing kits, the best way to tell a partner you have an STI, why supplements won’t work and more.

Why scary moves make you horny, how to get candle wax (from play or ambiance) out of anything, strategies for (not) sending regrettable texts and more.

What’s up with your Venus, what happens in couples’ therapy, what to wear to break up with your partner and more!

The damage of the war on sex work, vintage period booklets, when your head is aroused but your body isn’t (or vice versa) and more.