“Masturbated while watching porn. The orgasms were decent, possibly because I saw my super hot ex today who could almost make me come with just a smirk.”

This week in The A+ Insider, we re-cast Peter Pan starring Alex Vega, Laneia thinks you need a walk, we remember the year that was, and everybody stocks up on Endure By Rachel Kincaid.

This week on NSFW Sunday: PDAs, when straight people ask questions about lesbian sex, dating while living with a chronic illness and more.

Boy do y’all love to read about rope bondage!

This week on NSFW Sunday: sex in books, household BDSM toys, safe sex in porn and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: what counts as sex, the history of orgies, online dating, how to have anal and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: when your girlfriend makes you come too quickly, sex toy user interfaces, hiding things from hookups and more.

Chicago’s feminist sex shop has published a well-written guide to getting down for trans women and their partners, written by Rebecca Kling.

You! Yes, you! Get in here and let us love you!

Music, foodie foreplay and getting bossy.

This week on NSFW Sunday: the feminist porn revolution, kissing and sex, queer porn-y comics and more.

Sneak peaks for days, Brittani’s special workout recommendation, Stef’s pursuit of ERW, Rachel’s trip to Madison, early requests for AS 1.0 and so many more things you care deeply and passionately about!

For a myriad of reasons, we all somehow ended up clicking over to this very special place called Autostraddle Dot Com at some pivotal point in our queermo lives, and now we’re all still here making it happen! In this roundtable, our editors and writers share their “root” — the posts that brought them here for the first time.

This week on NSFW Sunday: how to get hugs, the end of the Lusty Lady, new ways to think about sex and disability and more.

This month we visit Club Drizzy, Heather gets punched in the face by a racist stranger at the airport, we pause to admire new merch, B wants to interview her not-ex-girlfriend and WHO WILL BE THE BUTT OF OUR GENERATION?

Wherein we further discuss the sex we were already discussing today.

This week on NSFW Sunday: being happy naked, types of relationships, activism in BDSM, 18 vulvas, sex and aging, and more.

This week on NSFW Sunday: dating and politics, the clit and installation art, sexual fantasies and more.

“Ugh I’m gonna run through the six with my woes and it’s gonna be so good for instagram.”

“The path of least resistance is to write off 50 Shades of Grey as harmless fluff, but frankly, after editing over one hundred novels full of distortions and abuse, I don’t think I could respect myself if I did so.”