In honor of our seventh birthday, we’re talking about the writing we’re proud of, the writing that scared us, the writing we regret, the writing coming up soon and so many other fascinating things!

Bad name; terrible aesthetic; awesome toy.

Butt plugs and anal beads not on a string; these are a few of my favorite things.

Solo poly, being weird about sex, being weird about porn, how orgasms work, masturbation and more.

Sexting, the patriarchy, lesbian sex haiku, a guide to (and some erotica about) eating pussy and more.

Ambient contact, having sex for the first time, smut, sideboob and more.

The Labia Library, the history of sex education in America, body hair and the patriarchy, the connection between texting and sexing and more.

Let’s take a bath!

Plus: Megan Rapinoe flirts with a lady ref at the World Cup, Miley talks about her sexuality and gender, Rachel Maddow has a new puppy, and so much more!

The Casual Sex Project, illegal sex toys, talking about masturbation, why we kiss and more.

Let’s get down to business.

Pokewomen, brontsauri and an ode to hands.

I was barely trying to come when the Magic Wand just sort of pulled multiple orgasms out of me. (I don’t usually have multiple orgasms.)

Staycationers ahoy! Are you pumped for the Staycation Spectacular, but feeling like maybe you want something a little more stimulating out of your day?

“You had me convinced that there were redeemable parts of you, that your leadership was making you less of a cesspool, that, like literally any other group of people, you contained both decent humans and horrid man-babies who throw tantrums when anyone tries to tell them how to behave like a person. I may have been wrong.”

How to use nipple clamps, tea versus sex, a conversation about porn, when kinky people have vanilla partners and more.

Let’s get down to business. The business of getting down to business with an itchy vag.

How to fingerblast, air sex, how to start using sex toys, bathroom hook-ups and more.

Stumped on what to get your queer BFF? Trying in a last-ditch attempt to bulk up your own list? Looking for inspiration for the perfect gift for your loved ones? We’re bound to have something in common with you or someone you like, so get in here and check out our wish lists!

I’ve come to two conclusions: most entities aren’t censoring gay content on purpose, they’ve just literally never thought of it; and filters, in most cases, are a waste of resources and a bad idea in general.