Whether you want to say “I love you,” “I have a crush on you,” or “I genuinely want you to be happy and maybe have a lot of orgasms,” we’ve got the sex toys for you.

“i wish there were more bloody lesbians in the world so that i never had to get into ridiculous situations like this.”

Princess Nokia, Dodie, Hayley Kiyoko, Tegan & Sara, Nina Sky and so many other artists blessed us this year with some very queer video imagery this year!

Vintage lesbian erotica, making it easier for adult performers to get bank accounts, vibrators’ evolution and more.

“E.L. Fudge is strictly for children, as no adult can actually eat them with any dignity or hope for their future.”

This week we’ve got Rick Astley callbacks, ideas for the next big musical, flirting with baristas and so much more!

BDSM and physical disability, how to make your own strap-on harness, fantasies and feminism, the “porn addiction” concept, sex should never hurt and more!

Read these essays and feel inspired to apply for and/or donate to the campership fund for our May 2017 camp in Wisconsin!

How to have sex on the beach (if you must), the history of dildos, Canadian sex positions, deconstructing anti-porn arguments and more.

We received an incredibly generous donation from someone who just wants to make your lives a little bit… shinier.

Crying while masturbating, the first-ever accessible orgy in Toronto, having better one-night stands, multiple orgasms and more.

Hooking up with your friends (but not on the beach), sex during or six weeks after pregnancy, lady-dating secrets and more.

If your name is Alyssa, Nancy, or Kai… I have news for you. That news is that you are gay.

Making better porn at home, whether it’s okay to have sex when you’re staying on someone’s couch, queer non-monogamy, the history of polyamory and more.

“omg wtf there are so many good looking butches in that one city in maine
is there a colony?”

Spend an evening with a good book and a paddle.

Using the Bouncer dildo is like fucking with kegel balls you can actually feel.

Anal sex, erotica, squirting, why the number of people you’ve slept with is not relevant and more.

Being in little space doesn’t feel like being a child again. It feels more freeing than my childhood ever was, and like something completely different.

I’m on the mountain this week, so please enjoy the following smut.