A card deck illustrated with lesbian sex, putting all your crushes in a secret Facebook group, invisible labor at Kink.com, talking with your actual mouth and more.

In my opinion, a good Tinder profile is more important than good hygiene.

no this look on my face is “excitement”
look how excited I am
also turned on
also our therapist says Tuesday morning is still good

“a new column called The Thrifty Tomboy and i talk about costco for 1,200 words
per day”

Being solo poly, pick-up strategies for queer sex, vulva emojis, when more sex does and doesn’t lead to more happiness (and an important caveat), and more

Vagina art, lust as a top, systematic discrimination against the sex industry, Melissa Gira Grant on Stoya and more.

BDSM as therapy, hugging, queer hook ups in middle America, liking your activity partner’s friends and more.

The edible sex toy industry, when porn can be educational, what to do if you cheated, cute early ideas about what sex is, five girls you bring home in your twenties, a scene from classic lesbian erotica and more.

Some sex toys are just better than others.

Sexual overtures from an alien, coming out like a porn star, changes to your Tinder profile, virtual reality porn and more.

How to “be” in a relationship, a new way to think about play piercing, consent as a starting point in sex and more.

Some days “home” is a nebulous moving target. Other days, it’s in your pocket.

btw we have some bonus Lesbian Kens in this post for you

Wasteland Weekend, the largest post-apocalyptic festival, is filled with cool cars, intricate costumes, bartering and bounty hunters. Come one, come all, but no jeans or tortoise shell glasses allowed.

A sex guide in poetry, how to get useful feedback in bed, what to do if you’ve been cheated on, giving kissing feedback and more.

The reasons you might have a “type,” dating someone at work, virtual reality porn, the social stigma around herpes and more.

Happy Fisting Day! Celebrate by fisting. Also celebrate by voting no on Proposition 60.

“WHY IMMEDIATELY FISTING”

The largest leather festival in the world brings butts, boobs and spanking to Folsom street in San Francisco.

“We support a strike that calls for recognition of women’s value and the necessity of the many forms of their labor; we also support all those who are already struggling economically and otherwise, who are deeply impacted by the administration and the systems we’re protesting, and who because of that can’t afford to risk financial instability or job loss for themselves and their families.”