How we talk about sex, how kink was declassified as a mental illness, physical therapy and your sex life and more.

Porn alternatives, how to actually exercise your kegels, a lesbian adult coloring book, butts, pervertables, ways to describe orgasms and more.

The only good reason to move in together, vibrators are cool now, flirting with plausible deniability, a new way to learn about sexual pleasure and more.

It’s vacation season. Let’s pack!

Queer feelings, being a rope bottom/being a translator, cheap dates that don’t feel cheap, multiple orgasms and more.

“Mom in the streets, Mimi from rent in the sheets”

It’s cold(ish) outside; warm up with this selection of queer erotica.

We all have periods of time in our lives when we find ourselves conforming to an identity or a style that isn’t quite… us.

In this NSFW Sunday: the New York Library’s extensive erotica collection, poly OkCupid updates, a vibrator that syncs with your smut and more.

Turn on all the lights in the house and come read about the Winchester Mystery House, haunted cabins, songs playing from beyond the veil, and our deeply unsurprising number of experiences with ghost cats.

Think of the 2001 Disney Channel Original Movie Motocrossed without the bikes and plus a whole lot of kink.

How to put toys in your butt, a map of feminist sex shops, UK porn censorship, keeping your sex toys warm when it’s cold and more.

Sex toys are getting increasingly non-representational, sex workers’ rights, Dr. Seuss’s book of nudes, no one is sexting enough, and more.

“Something about our conversations just makes me want to take off my underwear. And by ‘something’ I mean ‘everything.'”

Find out what the entire Autostraddle Team wants for the holigays, and nab a couple of sweet gift ideas for you and your loved ones while you’re at it!

“One way we can change the narratives around our sexuality and our erotic bodies is by taking up space as sexual beings and celebrating other women and femmes doing the same.” This zine is on it.

Broadcasting live this week from the Upside Down, it’s your best and brightest comments!

A card deck illustrated with lesbian sex, putting all your crushes in a secret Facebook group, invisible labor at Kink.com, talking with your actual mouth and more.

We spent some time making vision boards for 2017 because we needed the therapy. And the hope.

This week we’ve got gay agendas, arson of the heart/other places and so much more!