Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.

Sex and virtual reality, sex and depression, sex and stagnation and what to do about it. Plus tips for moving out after a breakup, edging, vintage vibrators and more.

Don’t move in with your partner, love is a lie and we all die alone, Fetlife is over, at least anal is still good though, plus a vibrator alarm clock.

Is love a lie? PROBABLY, but these couples charmed the heck out of us this year anyway.

Sexually charged slang, trans women’s pleasure, femmes strapping on, being a kinky survivor and more.

“I crush the patriarchy like a empty water bottle between my bare hands via my clothing.”

Why your nipples get hard when you’re aroused, why nipple hair is totally normal, how porn advances technology, what you wear when you want to look bangin’ and more. Plus an emoji vibrator.

Being a Queer Lady Magician to me means sharing the truths of our lives in unexpected, thought-provoking ways, instilling a sense of wonder, expanding our imaginations around what is possible.

The most popular emoji on Tinder, when your partnership gets boring, why it’s still hard to talk about what you want and more.

“Apparently INFJs operate more off feeling, and I would say that intuition very much commands my brain/heart ship, so it’s an accurate assessment. How’d this bitch know that I’m soft-spoken though?”

The similarity between Shibari and classical ballet, how sharing media or friends can strengthen relationships, how celery and the occult made you gay, what gets you a better response in online dating and more.

The single best way to get better at sex. Also Pokémon Go as dating app, when you have to pee during sex, how queer sex can teach you body love and more.

Queer nightlife in the early twentieth century, taking yourself out to dinner, a herpes vaccine, talking about chronic health problems and more.

DO NOT use genitalia as a champagne flute.

“I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BEING INTENSELY EMOTIONAL OR BAD WITH BOUNDARIES SOUNDS FAKE”

This comic is gorgeous, well-written, hella gay, sexy AF and one of my favorite books I’ve read in a while.

Evan Rachel Wood celebrates her birthday, Gaby Dunn celebrates America, Kristin Russo celebrates fashion week and we all celebrate Demi.

Lingerie for trans women, queers and virginity, a history of squirting, kink and writing, sex and writing, what Eileen Myles does in bed and more.

“I thought the Alicia Keys poster on my wall could see me, which I think had something to do with internalized homophobia.”

Sexting and insecurity, the future of porn, casual sex, pubic hair habits, how to recycle sex toys and more.