Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.

Is love a lie? PROBABLY, but these couples charmed the heck out of us this year anyway.

“I crush the patriarchy like a empty water bottle between my bare hands via my clothing.”

Being a Queer Lady Magician to me means sharing the truths of our lives in unexpected, thought-provoking ways, instilling a sense of wonder, expanding our imaginations around what is possible.

Sex and virtual reality, sex and depression, sex and stagnation and what to do about it. Plus tips for moving out after a breakup, edging, vintage vibrators and more.

Don’t move in with your partner, love is a lie and we all die alone, Fetlife is over, at least anal is still good though, plus a vibrator alarm clock.

Sexually charged slang, trans women’s pleasure, femmes strapping on, being a kinky survivor and more.

“Apparently INFJs operate more off feeling, and I would say that intuition very much commands my brain/heart ship, so it’s an accurate assessment. How’d this bitch know that I’m soft-spoken though?”

Why your nipples get hard when you’re aroused, why nipple hair is totally normal, how porn advances technology, what you wear when you want to look bangin’ and more. Plus an emoji vibrator.

“I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT BEING INTENSELY EMOTIONAL OR BAD WITH BOUNDARIES SOUNDS FAKE”

The most popular emoji on Tinder, when your partnership gets boring, why it’s still hard to talk about what you want and more.

DO NOT use genitalia as a champagne flute.

The similarity between Shibari and classical ballet, how sharing media or friends can strengthen relationships, how celery and the occult made you gay, what gets you a better response in online dating and more.

This comic is gorgeous, well-written, hella gay, sexy AF and one of my favorite books I’ve read in a while.

The single best way to get better at sex. Also Pokémon Go as dating app, when you have to pee during sex, how queer sex can teach you body love and more.

Evan Rachel Wood celebrates her birthday, Gaby Dunn celebrates America, Kristin Russo celebrates fashion week and we all celebrate Demi.

“I thought the Alicia Keys poster on my wall could see me, which I think had something to do with internalized homophobia.”

Queer nightlife in the early twentieth century, taking yourself out to dinner, a herpes vaccine, talking about chronic health problems and more.

“I also spent some time writing an intentionally awful Snape/Dobby/Giant Squid love triangle short story because sometimes you have to make your own fun.”

Lingerie for trans women, queers and virginity, a history of squirting, kink and writing, sex and writing, what Eileen Myles does in bed and more.