How sexting can help with multiple areas of your sexuality, how kinky people are less likely to victim-blame, the rise of STIs and more.

Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.

Counterfeit sex toys, the secret history of graham crackers and masturbation, and some smut just for you.

“I don’t know why I watched it, I guess maybe I wanted to get destroyed again and Netflix didn’t exist yet. I feel like my entire generation will never recover from this film.”

Victorian ideas about sex, cranberry juice and UTIs, whether it’s time to have sex or not right now and more.

Lez celebrate the Shi/Shi Union and these eight other sex toys designed and recommended especially with your lesbian sex needs in mind!

It’s truly magical when you can find a novel with lesbian or bisexual or queer characters that speaks to you and tells a damn good story.

Why people love spanking, why prop 60 is bad, why being a badass and a bottom is not a contradiction, why it’s hard to come out as non-monogamous and more.

It’s time for part two of our series on what queer women and trans people are talking about when they talk about tops, bottoms and switches. Today we are taking your love ON TOP.

Spanking, kink and mental health; the future of sex and technology; what happens to sex as you age (it gets better); forced orgasms and more.

Everything you need to know about choosing the right dildo for strap-on lesbian sex.

The astrological signs most and least likely to be polyamorous, going down on a vulva, false balance in sex reporting, how to live past age 100 (by having lots of sex) and more.

What makes an orgasm an orgasm, why crushes are fun, why queer porn is into safer sex (but you should still vote no on 60) and more.

Everything you need to know about picking out a strap-on harness.

The rise of nipple piercings, why winking is sexy, lingerie’s “nude” problem, hilarious theories on what causes lesbian sex and more.

*Law and Order sound* these are our stories — Autostraddle staffers share how they personally identify (or don’t!) and why.

Today we’re using our sex survey data to talk about switches and also about those of you who identified as NONE OF THE ABOVE. Which is fine!

An overview of everything going on with porn these days, how to have a secret relationship, why sex work should be decriminalized, where to learn more about submission and more.

From the ostensibly refined collections like coins and stamps to the esoteric like taxidermy, there’s a wide world of stuff to gather out there! That said, most of us just own very specific types of books, but we thought you’d be into that too.

Queer porn, feminist porn, politics and pleasure, being a good submissive, gender equality and sexual education and more.