What to do when you can’t come, how sex changes for trans women after transition; sex party stories, naked women in contemporary art, dental play and somatic writing and more.

How to feel good naked, neo-pussies, nipple play tips, dating while blind, pin-up girl history and more.

What to do if you feel lonely, what to do if you’re a victim of revenge porn, how straight parents fail at talking to queer kids about sex, how (and why it’s fun) to put ginger up your butt, what your Venus means and more.

I watched the way Dee moved as she went to the bar for our drinks: the confident swagger was there but I also noticed a slight hesitation as she placed down my wine glass. When she came back with our second round of drinks, I reached into her lap and cupped my hand over the shaft of her strap-on.

Sexuality and recovering from shame, how to meet people in real life without looking at your phone, vegan sex and kink toys, tantric masturbation, trans women suing Tinder and more.

A FOSTA/SESTA explainer, plus whether scissoring is a real lesbian sex thing, how to keep casual sex casual, how to handle jealousy and more.

It’s been a long week, you guys. This week’s Extra! Extra! covers all the news you didn’t even know was happening.

Having an hour a week devoted to being listened to can lend itself to a misdirection of feelings. It’s easy to dismiss this as a harmless crush, but it can easily spiral out into an obsession that takes away from the real work that needs to be done.

When feminist sex companies body shame, the next trends in porn searches, going Instagram official and more. Featuring Canadian trans porn star Jelena Vermilion.

“I’ve always found the word ‘spreadsheet’ low-key dirty sounding, because I’m an eternal twelve year-old.”

You came to “Sexing the Collage Cherry” and boi are your arms tired.

Stop self-sabotaging, avoid toxic sex toys, defend net neutrality, say no when you need to, try an orgasm cleanse and more.

Paige slowly took Bennett’s fingers back out of her mouth, but didn’t let go of them. “What about … “ She brought their hand down between her legs, under her slip, where she parted her thighs and led Bennett to touch her there.

Ava leads the charge to Hell to get answers from Astra while Zari faces off with a dinner party full of Encores.

The dating apps working to create safer experiences for people of color and queer and trans people, how to muff, how to have boundaries and more.

Confessions of a little spoon, dealing with poly jealousy, Shenny fan-fic, star signs with excellent sexual chemistry, the roots of our out-of-the-ordinary sexual desires and more! #shennystraddle

I follow my ex girlfriend’s rabbit on Instagram, but not her or her new girlfriend. Felt I should share.

A look at “Black Queer Goddess Project: The Plus-Size Femme.” Plus: how to take a good nude selfie, how to make a sex tape, types of love there aren’t English words for and more.

What “marriage is work” means, what to do when pleasure brings up trauma, how to be direct, poly people on poly, electrosex and more.

“I posted that photo just to be included in No Filter.”