Vintage lesbian porn, conviction as a way to access desire, the dating apps selling your data to third parties and more.

Cue the jaunty lesbian speed-walking music!

Your asshole is a swirling vortex. Plus: how to have sex in your childhood bedroom, a first orgy story, and why there’s no perfect person for you.

It’s the second issue of the best little behind-the-scenes newsletter EVER.

We both froze as we heard what can only be described as…a queef of confusion.

I took the advice of wise strappers before me and wore the harness and b.cush around the house for a while.

Why does autocorrect think you want to sext about ducks? Is Peloton porn about to take off? How do you tell a partner you don’t like their style?

The main reason I’ve been wanting to try the Neoprene Thigh Harness is so that I can penetrate my partner while tribbing against her thigh.

How do you tell if you’re horny? Why is love bombing manipulative? Why do first break-ups suck the hardest? What do you do if not everyone likes you?

I don’t know what to tell you, there’s a candle that smells like vagina. Plus, what snacks to bring for a threesome, how to fuck in acrylics, and more.

Chronic pain and sex, adopting the enemies of your longterm partner as your own, bad sex writing, saying no to sexting, and more!

No one had ever made me feel small before, but Alice was six-two and could lift me like I was a potted plant.

Today – January 5th – is the busiest dating app day of the year. Plus: A vibrator is a CES finalist, don’t live with your ex, and how to set boundaries around rough sex.

Settling, sending “we need to talk” with no context and texting your ghosts are all boring. Plus: how sex workers are leading the fight against mass surveillance, anal sex stats, a new trans dating app and more.

Why censoring sex works impacts everyone, life in Tinder purgatory, supporting a partner with sexual trauma and more.

What’s up with your Venus, what happens in couples’ therapy, what to wear to break up with your partner and more!

The ’70s orgy cookbook you never knew you needed. Plus: the best sex toys of 2019, how to have a sex dream and more.

Stop appropriating sex worker aesthetics, actually dating from dating apps, separation anxiety and more.

This all started because I have been shopping for nipple pasties.

“Thinking about the stud who hit on me in Penn Station. They were so smooth that I’m still thinking about it three years later.”