I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex
How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss.
What’s Your Favorite + Least Favorite Household Chore?
Turns out a lot of us hate folding laundry.
30 Winter Mocktails To Get Cozy With
Queue up a fake fire on your TV and have mocktails by a mockfire.
Queer Horoscopes for Sagittarius Season 2024
Sagittarius season encourages us to have independent thoughts and actions.
“My Body, My Choice!”: Unpacking the Queer Subtexts of ‘Junior’ 30 Years Later
Ivan Reitman’s second team-up of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito after Twins (1988) has a bit of a cult status in my queer friend group.
‘The Sex Lives of College Girls’ Season Three Struggles To Let Go of Reneé Rapp
While The Sex Lives of College Girls succeeds in ushering Rapp off the canvas, it’s less successful in navigating its third season without her.
We’re Watching Trans Media Wrong
Very few movies are Bad or Good, Offensive or Inoffensive, Positive or Harmful.
I Believe We Shouldn’t Own Guns. I’m Learning How To Shoot One Anyway
Everyone needs to stop being so flippant about telling queer and trans people to buy guns.
Affirmations You Can Say to Yourself in the Mirror Every Morning That Are Just Direct Quotes From ‘Cruel Intentions’
Tired: Start your day by setting intentions.
Wired: Start your day by quoting Cruel Intentions.
Is ‘Real Housewives of New York’ the New ‘L Word’?
Racquel and Mel are bringing queerness to RHONY beyond the visibility of their relationship.
No Filter: Chappell Roan Deserves a Break
Plus, a photo of Melissa King that will have you screaming YES, CHEF!!!!!!
Rebels Against Disney Have Uploaded the Cut Trans Episode of ‘Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur’
The completed episode of the Marvel animated series appeared to have been cut due to its pro-trans message.
Baby Steps #1: How We Got Gay Pregnant
My wife and I are having a baby and this is the first edition of Baby Steps, a column about the gestation and eventual birth of this human child who I think is going to be pretty tall!
I Can’t Believe They Went to a Dyke Bar (Again!) on ‘Real Housewives of New York’
Racquel, Hot Mel, Erin, and Abe head to The Bush in Brooklyn.
‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’
Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?
‘Arcane’ Continues With Hope, Heartache, and a Goth Era
“I can appreciate a girl who’s down bad and Cait sure is that!”
Questions To Ask Yourself Before Going to Your Family’s Super Straight, Potentially Hostile Holiday Gathering
The answers to which might tell you you shouldn’t go at all.
Bi Reality Star Francesca Farago and Fiancé Jesse Sullivan Welcome Twins Named Locket and Poetry
Bi Reality Star Francesca Farago and Trans TikToker Jesse Sullivan’s twins have been birthed and named! Also: Sophie Turner gets eyed for Lara Croft, Cynthia Erivo compares Elphaba’s othering to being a Black queer woman, and more!
Kate Bush Songs That Make Me Feel Gay and Invincible as Hell
I talk about Bush and her contributions a lot with friends, but when news of her potentially heading back into the studio dropped, I immediately started thinking about a list of songs.
Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis Are Going To Be Soccer Moms!
Sam Kerr and Kristie Mewis are expecting their first child in 2025.