You Need Help: I’m Not Sure I Want To Be Friends With My Ex
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is to lean into your gut feeling.
New Year’s Resolutions Can Be Fun Actually
If you want to work out more, that’s great. But it’s also great if what you want is to watch every episode of the original Twilight Zone or dedicate more time to long masturbation sessions.
Satellite of Love: Queer Horoscopes for January 2024
In 2024 we need to be able to think the unthinkable.
What’s New and Gay To Stream in January 2024
January is coming in hot and gay with new seasons of Hightown and Sort Of, Jodie Foster’s “True Detective: Night Country,” a quirky locked room murder mystery on a luxury ocean liner, an adult animated series starring the princess of hell and so much more!
Queer Mom Chronicles: Happy New Year!
Giving up control is hard for me as a mom who was a single parent for so many years.
Mini Crossword Has a T-Shirt for That
What do sprinters eat before a race?
“Survivor” Winners Parvati Shallow and Erika Casupanan Are Gay and Parvati’s Bae is Mae
Parvati Shallow — already a gay icon and the winner of Survivor Season 16 — is queer and dating non-binary comedian Mae Martin. AND Survivor Season 41 winner Erika Casupanan came out as a lesbian!
Shame as a Black, Autistic Queer Elder
“Toward the end of our stay in Mississippi, a 24-hour crisis line started up. I called them almost every weeknight.”
What Should Your Questionable New Year’s Resolution Be, According to Your Sign?
Let’s all agree to make THIS year call us “Daddy.”
Quiz: Which Iconic Gay Character of 2023 Are You?
Which of these iconic gay characters of 2023 are you?
Apparently, Shame Tastes Like My Cunt
“The other partners I had throughout much of my time in sex work were uncomfortable at best and shaming at worst. They were jealous and confused. ‘How can you interact with men like this?'”
Baopu #119: Be Brave But Not Alone
Create, build, and explore a queer future.
The Top 12 Queer Novels of 2023
I thought it would be fun to do a ranked list of the 12 queer novels that stood out to me this year. And by “fun,” I mean pleasurably agonizing.
A+ Crossword Plays as Yoshi
What kind of music do windmills like?
Boobs on Your Tube: Raising Kanan Has One of the Best Teen Lesbians on TV, When Will People Pay Attention
I’ve long said that Jukebox is the heartbeat of Raising Kanan. It’s a bit of a double-edged sword when you think about it.
What’s In and Out for 2024
IN: Ethical Non-Monogamy (the action), OUT: Ethical Non-Monogamy (the phrase)
The Most Important Movie of the Year Is a Documentary From 1976
The Memory of Justice draws parallels between the Holocaust and the more recent horrors of the French occupation of Algeria and the American occupation of Vietnam.
Mini Crossword Had a Sneaking Suspicion
You know why they called it “the Dark Ages?”
Short Fiction Collection “Girlfriends” Presents Expansive, Nonlinear View of Transition and Dysphoria
The trans women in Girlfriends often find themselves stuck in the spiderweb of someone else’s drama or self-implosion.
For My 30th Birthday, I Moved Back to New York
Essays about turning 30 are almost as annoying as essays about moving to or from New York.