I’m a Stone Butch Top Who Can’t Bring Myself To Penetrate Anyone Else
“I’m struggling to get over the empathetic feelings of ‘Aaa! Vaginal penetration is painful and bad.'”
Cecilia Gentili Showed What It Means To Care About Sex Workers, Immigrants, and Trans People
She saw organizing and her work within her communities not as something she had to do but as something she needed and wanted to do.
This Week’s Episode of “Good Trouble” Was the Queerest of the Season
For all the shortcomings of Good Trouble, I’m hard pressed to recall a show — other than The L Word, Pose, and A League of Their Own — that integrated so many queer characters into its narrative.
Things I Read That I Love #334: Group Chats, Polycules, Data Free Disney, Iron Claws and Pretty Faces
Patricia Lockwood meets the pope, Leslie Jamison has a baby and gets divorced. Also: going to Disneyworld but not giving up your data, the reborn doll community, the Iron Claw, the tyranny of a mother’s vanity, how group chats rule the world and more!
Mini Crossword Is in the Gay Mafia
What do you get if you cross an angry sheep with a cranky cow?
K. Allison Hammer Imagines the Queer and Trans Possibilities of Masculinity
Rather than focus on individual, exceptional figures of toxic masculinity, Hammer wanted to explore masculinity as a cultural form that people of all genders can embody.
“Wynonna Earp” Is Coming Back for a 90-Minute Scripted Special!
Wynonna Earp is bringing back Purgatory’s own bisexual angel and her lesbian WIFE for a 90-minute special on Tubi!
Peacock’s New Polyamorous Reality Show “Couple to Throuple” Forgets That Thirds Are People Too
Couple to Throuple wants the couples to find their forever third. But the couples are still trying to decide what they want for themselves.
Untethered: The Designated Girl-Son
I came across the concept of the “designated son” on TikTok.
Do You Love Porn and the Toy Story Franchise? Well, I Have Some Great News!
You’ve got a friend IN me?
The Times I Stayed in the Closet While Wedding Planning
Planning a queer wedding isn’t without its complications, especially when you live in a place trying to push LGBTQ folks out of public life.
The 12 Lesbian Love Languages
You might be familiar with the 5 Love Languages — but do you know the 12 Lesbian Love Languages? Great news, I just made them up: from “premature commitment” to “nesting” to “gay chaos,” let’s dig into this life-altering and deeply scientific understanding of what makes it all work out.
Pop Culture Fix: Abbott Elementary Returns Tonight with a New Queer Actor!
Abbott Elementary adds a queer actor Kimia Behpoornia as a recurring character, Disney adds The Marvels to streaming and announces Moana 2, a renewal for The Traitors, Florence Pugh and Zendaya looking hot on the red carpet, and more!
They Should Have Sent A Poet
“I was around the same age as young Ellie when ‘Contact’ came out. The way she so clearly carries her childhood self with her made adulthood legible; it made time seem like less of an unknowable straight line and something more like a circle. Watching it as an adult I have that same feeling.”
We Loved boygenius Because of How They Loved Each Other
“While many of boygenius’ songs detailing romantic relationships endure tragedy, their songs detailing platonic love are effulgent, radiant, and deeply compelling.”
No Filter: It’s Janelle Monáe’s World, We’re Just Living In It
Also I did not think I could be MORE attracted to Kehlani but then she wore these glasses!!!!
New “Love Lies Bleeding” Trailer Just Dropped and the Horny Lesbian Atmosphere Is Electric
Kristen Stewart is licking what is either blood or a protein shake up Katy O’Brian’s chest and I am EXCITED.
Documenting and Honoring Queer History Requires Imagination
Nothing Ever Just Disappears: Seven Hidden Queer Histories, a new book by cultural historian Diarmuid Hester, shows us what is possible when we consider space in this way.
Mini Crossword Gets a Pass
I can tolerate algebra. Maybe even a little calculus.
What Do the Signs REALLY Want for Valentine’s Day?
No matter what zodiac sign(s) are your sweetie(s)’s, it’s probably a good idea to butter them up with what they really, really want for Valentine’s Day.