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Introducing Camp Autostraddle XI

Join Roxane Gay, Be Steadwell, Nia & Ness, Gaby Dunn, Brittani Nichols and 400 LGBTQ women, non-binary people and other trans folks for five days of fun fun fun in Ojai, California!

Riese January 31, 2019 118 Comments
Community

Send Autostraddle a Birthday Card, Because We’re Turning 10!

In honor of our 10th birthday, our Birthday Issue, and your senior editors’ intrepid love for all things DIY and tangible in a world determined to go all digital, we invite you to send Autostraddle a physical birthday card to celebrate our big day.

Vanessa January 31, 2019 15 Comments
Sex Toys Sponsored Valentine's Day

Sharing Is Caring: 10 Sex Toys Perfect for Couples This Valentine’s Day

Although you can have fun getting busy with a partner with any kind of toy you’re into, these toys designed specifically with couples in mind can leave you and your cutie feeling more satisfied than a Domino’s heart-shaped pizza this Valentine’s Day.

Rachel January 31, 2019 1 Comment
The L Word: Generation Q TV News & Trailers

“The L Word” Reboot Is Really, Actually Happening This Very Year

Bette, Shane, and Alice — at the very least — will be back in the eight-episode new season that will land on Showtime some time in 2019.

Heather Hogan January 31, 2019 69 Comments
AF+

The Autostraddle Insider: Issue 53, January 2019

“It’s been so long since I watched a lighthearted dramedy not set in the UK that I’ve forgotten the American way to pronounce condom.”

Riese January 31, 2019 34 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Riverdale” Recap Episode 311: Sorry, I’m Actually Just Going to Shout About Cheryl and Toni

When was the last time the two queer women of Riverdale got any semblance of character development?

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya January 31, 2019 8 Comments
Literature

Lez Liberty Lit: Imagining a Safer Future

Still mourning Mary Oliver. Plus why “books” are not a personality, the mood of reading, feminist bookstores to support right now and more.

Ryan Yates January 31, 2019 1 Comment
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Travel

Queer Girl City Guide: Houston

Everything’s bigger in Texas.

Queer Girl City Guides January 31, 2019 3 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Black Lightning” Episode 211 Recap: Sweet, Sweet Forehead Kisses

Grace Choi is back! And she brought kisses and French fries!

Carmen Phillips January 30, 2019 5 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Good Trouble” Episode 104 Recap: Playing the Game

Callie learns another secret she’s gotta keep, Mariana learns another hard lesson about being a young Latina in a dudebro industry, and Alice learns she’s got to re-learn how to say no.

Natalie January 30, 2019 5 Comments
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Natalie Morales Will Play an Openly, Casually Bisexual Lead on NBC’S New Comedy “Abby’s”

Plus: Lena Waithe’s Boomerang looks so so gay, Megan Rapinoe thinks men should take a few hundred years off, Sasha Lane lands a spot in Gillian Flynn’s new show, Brittani Nichols is writing for Issa Rae and Robin Thede’s Black Lady Sketch Show, and your first look at Rosie Perez as Renee Montoya.

Heather Hogan January 30, 2019 8 Comments
First Person

You Don’t Always Transition Once

Transitioning is stigmatized as betraying our assigned gender. Sometimes, though, it takes two betrayals to get where we need to be.

Esther Nikbin January 30, 2019 30 Comments
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Tessa Thompson Sure Knows How To Put Out A Fire

Also, Kehlani named her baby and King Princess’ newest collaboration will have you weeping.

Stef January 30, 2019 13 Comments
Webcomics

Foolish Child #38: TV Trash

“I will not have you ruining another show with your ‘facts.'”

Dickens January 30, 2019 4 Comments
TV Reviews

Gina Rodriguez’s Carmen Sandiego Is a Kickass Feminist Hero Who Makes Every Man Around Her Look Like a Buffoon

Latina legend Carmen Sandiego is the most competent, confident person on the show, unapologetic in her femme-ness. A feminist Latina Robin Hood!

Heather Hogan January 29, 2019 10 Comments
Politics + Activism

Empire’s Jussie Smollett Beaten in Racist, Homophobic Attack by Trump Supporters

An attack on a black gay celebrity like Jussie Smollet is also a message sent to his black and gay fans. So today, for all our queer fam out there, but especially for my black queer family, feel the love and strength of our community. Our kinship is a gift. Please, fortify yourself in that gift today.

Carmen Phillips January 29, 2019 29 Comments
Gender

You Need Help: How Do I Tell If I’m a Butch Cis Woman or a Trans Non-Binary Person?

If I could tell everyone how to differentiate between gender expression feels and gender feels, I’d be Sovereign Ruler of Gender and maybe things would be easier, but probably also a lot less fun.

A.E. Osworth January 29, 2019 69 Comments
Book Lists Queer Pregnancy

What to Read When You’re Queer and Expecting: 6 Parenting Books That Smash The Patriarchy

Unfortunately, most parenting books weren’t written with queer moms, trans dads, non-binary parents and gestational carriers, and families that look like ours in mind.

KaeLyn January 29, 2019 23 Comments
TV Reviews

“How to Get Away With Murder” Destroys Eve and Annalise and Also Our Hearts

Days later, I remain astounded by these writing choices and their cruelty.

Natalie January 28, 2019 16 Comments
TV Show Recaps

“Supergirl” Episode 411 Recap: Paradise Lost

Nia finally gets a place on Team Super and Alex’s hair somehow gets gayer?

Valerie Anne January 28, 2019 16 Comments
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