On Shopping in Public
“Here I am, gaslighting myself, and all I want to do is buy some clothes.”
Foolish Child #35: White FemiNEST
“You never know what’s going to provoke them to attack.”
Not In Our Name: A Statement on Trans Inclusion From Lesbian Editors and Publishers
We have joined with the editors and publishers of Diva, Curve, Lesbians on the Loose, Tagg Magazine, DapperQ and Lez Spread The Word to make a statement on our commitment to trans inclusion, support and advocacy.
“Life-Size 2” Is a Holigay Miracle: a Bisexual Made-for-TV Christmas Movie
Shine bright, shine far! Be a star! Where you live, where you are!
Find Your Fit: The NB Parent Ready for a Personal Style
“I had a kid two years ago and have really struggled working out my gender after that. My body changed a lot in ways I did not like and I’ve been trying to come to terms with my identity as a person, rather than just my kid’s mum.”
The Queer History of the Shaven Head
Shaven heads on women have challenged and informed ideas of beauty, power and tradition for centuries. Here’s the history of a very queer style.
Cuffing Season: Five Tips for Anxious Dominants
Worried you can’t be a good Dominant because you’re too anxious or awkward? Don’t be.
10 Hallmark Christmas Movies That Are Actually Just Gay Fan Fiction
Oh come, all ye faithful.
Monday Roundtable: The Style Icons Who Inspired Our Gay Style
“My style icon is Nancy Meyers’ interpretation of a middle-aged white woman after she’s decided to pull herself together sometime in the second act. Wow that is… I feel very called out by own self.”
Shapeshifters: Bespoke Binders Put Fun on Your Chest
What Shapeshifters has done here is made binders where the point of them goes beyond the normal utilitarian point of a binder. And honestly? We deserve that!
Sunday Funday Is Confirming Stephanie Tanner’s Bisexuality: Have Mercy!
A brand new gay bar in San Francisco, a lesbian Spice World in Toronto, lesbian meet-cutes, and of course Stephanie Tanner Bisexual.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Not in a Permanent State of Enthusiasm
FOSTA/SESTA are part of why Tumblr is banning sex, opening a closed relationship, why love is not a state of constant enthusiasm and more.
Be The Change: The Key to Unlocking Your Power
To truly do the work from our standpoint, from a place of strong objectivity, is crucial. So what does that look like? What does using our individual standpoint to make change look like?
Baopu #54: Difficult Conversation
Baopu has a long-avoided conversation with mom.
Boobs on Your Tube: “All American” Continues to Change the Game for Black Lesbian Representation on TV
This is our last Boobs Tube of 2018! Come on in and talk to us about All American, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, Charmed, Critical Role, The Young and the Restless, Camping, Coronation Street, and Sally4Ever!
The Comment Awards Can Have Nice Things
“The heart with a dot below it is the menstruation heart you cannot change my mind.”
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: Which Romantic Comedies Remind You That Love Isn’t A Lie?
Romantic comedies are the cure to my broken heart, and maybe yours! Get in here and talk about them with me!
VIDEO PREMIERE: Alex G’s New Music Video, ‘Pray It Away,’ Creates Her Own Salvation
“Honestly, it’s for younger me who really needed to know that you could be queer and loved by God at the same time.”
The Care and Keeping of Overalls
A lesser, straighter person might have given up the ghost at this point, but I was determined.
Holigay Gift Guide: What Do You Get the Sex Enthusiast Who Has Everything?
So, what do you get the person that already seems to own everything? Something weird, my pals!