Monday Roundtable: Reflections on Being 19 From 2019
“I hadn’t yet come to terms with being a lesbian, so I also spent a lot of time making excuses not to have sex.”
Sunday Funday is Celebrating Being Queer and Brown
Nigerian actress and model Alli Ojo comes out, a queer 2019 calendar, gays in a David’s Bridal commercial, a South African queer art collective, a seventh grader bringing Pride to her community, and more!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Starting The Day With An Orgasm
When you can’t get out of bed until you come, sex in lucid dreams (and how to try it), how the tech industry is afraid of sex toys and more.
Some Things: Something New
I’m ready to look fondly backwards at Sadness as something I once was.
Be The Change: A Simple Guide to Lobbying Your Elected Officials Like a Pro
A step-by-step guide to lobbying your elected officials. Ready your power suit!
Boobs on Your Tube: Sara Ramirez Breaks Hearts in Madam Secretary’s Family Separation Episodes
Plus the first updates of 2019 on grown-ish, S.W.A.T., Coronation Street, The Young and the Restless, General Hospital and Critical Role!
The Comment Awards Are Folding You Into Thirds and Setting You Upright In a Drawer
Spark joy, motherf*ckers!
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: A Modest Proposal That Pet Stores Are The New Queer Meet-Up Spots In 2019, Do You Agree?
You may be saying, “Alexis, you’re late to the party here,” but gentlepeople I believe I am right on time.
31 Iconic “L Word” Outfits, Ranked By Incandescence
As Bette Porter once wanted to tell Franklin, “Great art is a response to small-minded corporate fascists trying to impose their ignorance on the sheep-like masses.”
Here’s Everything You Need to Succeed at Cooking More Often This Year
These are my backbone and support system for both cooking and baking, and having these items in your arsenal it will substantially upgrade your kitchen prowess.
“Letterkenny” Is the Surprisingly Queer Canadian Comedy You’ve Been Sleeping On
Letterkenny might not seem like something you’d be into but HEAR ME OUT.
Marie Kondo’s “Tidying Up” Lovingly Drags the Depressed, Defeated Viewer into 2019
If you got through 2018 without clinging desperately to the fantasy of a beautiful stranger showing up in your home and telling you she believes in you and sitting with you supportively while you sort through the eight pairs of Vans your ex somehow managed to leave at your place, first of all congrats and second please pipe down because this is all the rest of us have.
You Need Help: How Do I Spice Up My Relationship?
So you’re not looking for anything new… but something has got to change for you to feel more fulfilled in this relationship.
8 Science Fiction and Fantasy Books with Queer Poly Relationships
8 great queer women-focused poly SF/F books coming right up!
“Good Trouble” Is a Worthy (and Gay) Successor to “The Fosters”
Stef and Lena may not show up until episode five, but their spirit is everywhere in The Fosters’ spin-off.
In 2018, Lesbian and Bisexual TV Characters Did Even Better
Here’s your in-depth look at all the numbers on lesbian, bisexual and queer television representation in 2018. Spoiler alert: it got better?
Pop Culture Fix: Lesbian Couple Will Seek Sexual Education in Gillian Anderson’s New Netflix Show “Sexual Education” and Other Educational Stories
Topics include the new Netflix show “Sex Education,” a lesbian-inclusive David’s Bridal commercial, a new trailer for “Russian Doll,” Amandla Stenberg’s HRC award, Dorian Award Winners, “lesbian culture has had a major update” and so much more!
“Days of Our Wives” Is IRL Marceline and Princess Bubblegum Out Here Proving Love Is Not a Lie
In the early days of 2019 I’ve found myself really drawn to books and TV and movies and podcasts that are full of light and warmth and hard-won happiness. Enter: Days of Our Wives.
No Filter: Stephanie Beatriz Is So Hot I Invented an Awards Ceremony Around Her
I invented an awards ceremony to recognize great achievements in Instagram, bestowing honors upon Janelle Monaé, Lena Waithe, Hayley Kiyoko and King Princess. Guess who won the Thirst Trap Award?
Oh, Hey! It’s Alyssa #62: Twenty Bi-Teen
New Year! New Me!