Traveling to Meet Your Long-Distance Online Crush: A Gentle Guide
It’s 2019 and the world is our hot gay oyster! But… how do you actually go about planning a trip to meet the faraway queer of your dreams?
Autostraddle March Madness — Best Coming Out: Classics
Hope you’re feeling nostalgic! You have 48 hours to vote for your favorites!
“Supergirl” Episode 416 Recap: The Lost Daughter of Krypton
We finally get to see what Kasnian Kara has been up to all this time.
Every Major Female “Star Trek” Character, Ranked By Lesbianism
Our continuing mission: to explore strange new worlds, to seek out new lesbian life and new bisexual civilizations, and to boldly go where this franchise often vehemently refused to go before!
Monday Roundtable: Our Ideal Birthdays
When it’s your birthday, you should get to do whatever you want — here are our requests.
“Killing Eve” Season Two Review: Eve and Villanelle Still Want Each Other, Madly
Eve and Villanelle and their complicated, dangerous, seductive, vulnerable connection are in very capable hands.
Samira Wiley Arrives on “Will & Grace” to Turn Karen’s Bisexuality From Running Joke to Swoony Storyline
If you thought Cameron Esposito showing up as Rosa Diaz’s girlfriend on Brooklyn Nine-Nine was the most shocking gay thing to happen thing on TV last Thursday night, wait’ll you get a load of this.
Sunday Funday and Young M.A Have Big Strap Energy
Young M.A is making me sweat! Plus, a victory for LGBTQ+ parents in Michigan, 40 queer women under 40, rural queers, the lesbian Kid Governor of CT, The Prom: The Musical, and more!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Knows the Real Problem With Keto Crotch
What a BDSM munch is, why keto crotch is rooted in misogyny, how to live with someone you just broke up with and more.
Mel B Confirms She and Geri Halliwell Definitely Boned During the Spice Girls’ Glory Days; I Am Deceased
Truly, THIS is what I want. What I really, really want.
Raising Baby T. Rex: Potty Training, Patience and Pride
It’s literally a social science experiment every day and we don’t have any control. That’s how it is with toddlers, I guess…
Yo! That’s Not Cool #19: Good Vibes
Too positive???
Boobs on Your Tube: Seriously How Does “Charmed” Keep Getting Gayer?
Plus: All American ends a really solid first season, you’ll never guess who’s back on Arrow, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend surprises with a little Valencia and Beth, a non-binary patient on Grey’s, and Maia gets Kalinda’d on The Good Fight.
The Comment Awards Are Smooching Stephanie Beatriz on Primetime
There are no accidents.
“Brooklyn Nine-Nine” Introduces Cameron Esposito as Rosa’s Girlfriend Like Some Kind of Soft Butch Fever Dream
Last night’s Brooklyn-Nine finally introduced Rosa’s season-long off-screen girlfriend, and in doing so, paid off the set up for probably the best inside gay joke I have ever seen on television in my entire life.
FRIDAY OPEN THREAD: What’s Your Attachment Style, Cutie Patootie?
Do you know about attachment styles? I previously did not. Is it like an astrology thing? Or a Myers-Briggs thing? Or an enneagram thing? No, it’s not. Also, yes, kind of. Come find out or just hang with me!
The Magic Fish
“I cried when it came to the Island of Misfit Toys. I thought of all the perfectly-good toys I’d rendered misfits by my casual disregard of them, how it always ate away at me as a child. I thought of being casually disregarded, myself.”
The Harassment of Young M.A and Including Black Butches When We Talk About Violence
Jokes that make violence appear innocuous is how we get dead.
10 Queers on How the F*ck We Deal With Our Exes
“I want to treat everyone who has ever mattered to me with respect, and with a baseline kindness. I know not all my exes feel I’ve done that, but I have always tried.”
20 New Books by or About Queer Women to Read This Spring
Here are 20 novels, YA titles, memoirs, poetry collections, and more that we think you’ll absolutely love. What are you excited about reading this spring?