We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!
“Lesbian bed death” does happen, and many lesbians feel they’re not having enough sex. But it doesn’t happen for the reasons you think it does, and it’s not necessarily the problem you think it is.
If you want to look extra put-together, it’s time to upgrade your lube dispenser.
It’s pride month! Let’s get jacked for our favorite sex act with exercises for strap-on sex!
Transmasc people have our own unique desires and boundaries in bed, just like everyone else.
Here’s how to masturbate when shame is getting in your way.
Single-column and double-column ties are the foundation for more complicated shibari ties, and they’re also fun on their own! Here’s how to get started.
It’s spring! Tits the season for appreciating boobs, chests, and nipples — so let’s do some chestploration and nipple stimulation!
In the hands of Black queer and trans folks, kink can be deeply healing and transformative.
A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.
I want you to know that your shame is not uncommon and you’re not alone in feeling it. While it does take a long time to undo, you’re on the right track by acknowledging it verbally.
Kink can be a profound space of healing, which is something that Black people — and especially Black women — deeply deserve.
I knew they taught about safety in BDSM culture, and I assumed that this ethic would carry through in their COVID safety. I was wrong.
Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.
Put on your lesbian hard hats — we’re about to enter dangerous territory.
Lube. Just lube. Lube for regular sex, with or without toys. Lube anytime, for anything. It’s lube!
The queer community played a special role in shaping how the word is used today. Are you ready to learn more? Say, “Yes, Daddy.”
Then I feel something wet…but not in a place where I’m supposed to feel something wet. Also, it’s kind of rough.
I was having my first group sex experience AND my first queer experience in one night?!
We both froze as we heard what can only be described as…a queef of confusion.