Results for: Feel good
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Into the A+ Advice Box #62: WELLBEING
The team responds to questions about seeking ADHD diagnosis, routines and self-care, getting the most out of therapy, being the emotional support friend but never the emotional support recipient, and more!
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Into the A+ Advice Box #78: Forgiveness and Accountability
Should you forgive an abusive parent? What should you do with a conflict between your ex girlfriend and a friend? And more!
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Interview With My Wife: Stacy
“Well, we first bonded over Naomily.”
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Editor’s Notes: Horror Is So Gay 2
“I want the vibe to be 1980s slashercore mixed with nostalgic late-night sleepover vibes.”
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I’m A Newly Single Older Lesbian Baffled By What My Dates Expect From Me Sexually
An older lesbian needs advice for coping with dates expecting her to desire penetration, plus advice on the politics of dietary restrictions, finding love while allergic to cats, and the classic two bottoms: one relationship.
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Into the A+ Advice Box: Should You Be Dating After an Assault?
“It is essential that we do name rape in our LGBTQIA+ communities.”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #83: ETHICS
We’re here in this round of advice to tackle everything that is heavy. Our team answers questions around adoption, sexual assault within the queer community, the personal decisionmaking around having white friends as a POC — and more.
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S L I C K: Yuletide Fire
A graphic designer and a coffee roaster get frisky at their company’s holiday party. “Somehow, her thigh had found itself between my legs. Leaning in closer, she whispered, ‘I want to see how wet you are for me, babe.'”
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Into the A+ Advice Box #59: You Love Her But There’s No Passion
What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!
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“Too Queer, Too Smart” for Abuse
“They didn’t hit me. They didn’t throw me. They didn’t throw the phones, the glasses, the blow dryers, at me. They were just near me and it was always somehow my fault.”
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Things I’ve Never Asked Carmen About Growing Up in a Theater Family, Her Dating Habits, and More!
We talk tattoos, 9/11 and Carmen’s high school activism, spirituality, what L Word character Carmen is most like, being a die-hard femme and more!
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Shame as a Black, Autistic Queer Elder
“Toward the end of our stay in Mississippi, a 24-hour crisis line started up. I called them almost every weeknight.”
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Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us: #47
“EVERY GARLIC PRESS I BUY SUCKS.”
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The Group Chat: Our Embarrassing TikTok Fascinations
“I think maybe TikTok thinks I am a gay man.”
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Am I Being Biphobic Or Just Setting Boundaries?
You bonded over a lesbian identity but now she’s exploring bisexuality, and you’re poly and you really don’t want a cis man in the mix. Plus advice for transitioning from LDR to IRL LIVING 2GETHER.
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Interview With My Wife: Mia
“I know, now the thought of sleeping in is just as exciting as a full blown affair to me.”
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The Eras of My Bisexuality
She was the straight, white, Christian girl who was so picture perfect no one could dislike her.
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Glitter and Glycerin: A Snow Globe Workshop Recap
Snow globe instructions and a hot D&D tip of ALL THINGS.
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Into the A+ Box #85: POLYAMORY
“The right people will understand this. Trust that you will find them.”
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How to Find Local Kink Community and Also How to Hire a Sex Worker
“There’re contingencies of queer freaks everywhere, sometimes it just takes a little more effort.”