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Playlists

Playlist: Musical Theatre for the End of Capitalism

We can end capitalism, and we will do it with showtunes! Because, to quote famed lesbian Elphaba, “Nobody in all of Oz, no wizard that there is or was, is EVER gonna bring me down!”

Ari August 10, 2020 9 Comments
Image is split in two with the "To L and Back" logo in the middle. On the left, Alice and Tina are at a party at The Planet. On the right, Jodi is in her loft, smiling.
Podcasts The L Word

“To L and Back” Podcast Episode 501: LGB Tease

We’re back NOW WITH TRANSCRIPTS for Episode 501, in which Jenny refuses a croissant and Tasha calls to say she can’t talk right now and Jodi hates table cloths.

Riese August 10, 2020 11 Comments
Ari's homemade graphic design (They're working on building their skills!) of the Schuyler sisters from Hamilton, posed in their infamous "Werk!" line with their right hands above their head, snapping in air, against a neon rainbow background.
Society + Culture

Sunday Funday Is Working for Women’s Rights! WERK!

The Schuyler sisters are back to honor the women’s suffrage centennial, Pride week is coming to the Navajo Nation, Kae Tempest is nonbinary, and Queen Latifah on a motorcycle just because you deserve it. Happy Sunday, friends!

Ari August 9, 2020 3 Comments
Beating Hart and C’est La Vie making out
NSFW Sunday

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Having Masked Sex

How Shine Houston made queer porn great, how action and pleasure go together, how to be a better top, what cannabis can do for your masturbation and more.

Ryan Yates August 9, 2020 2 Comments
A hand drawn cartoon of fictional, hot summer week in Portland. The sketches are black and white against a peachy-pink background. One queer partner complains to their other about having to serve a customer at their restaurant who refuses to wear a mask. The temperature outside is 97 degrees. It's HOT and the sun blazes.
Webcomics

Reine #11: Heat Wave

One hot, queer week in the summer of 2020. From face masks, to protests, to cats sleeping on ice packs to beat the heat.

Ren Strapp August 8, 2020 7 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Loyal and True

“James is a great man who let Bette Porter yell at him all the time and never complained. He was Bette’s most loyal bottom.”

Darcy August 7, 2020 3 Comments
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Extra! Extra!: A Race Between Education and Catastrophe

We used this week’s Extra! Extra! to revisit some not-so-distant history, examine the fucked up shit happening in the name of “Homeland Security,” take a look at some of the global headlines that caught our eye and check in on how COVID continues to impact our lives. Finally, we leave you with some good news… a little optimism to carry you into the weekend.

the team August 7, 2020 10 Comments
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TV Reviews

The Second Season of “The Umbrella Academy” Is Here Because It’s Gay

Season Two of The Umbrella Academy finally let Ellen Page reach her full lesbian potential and the show was better for it.

Valerie Anne August 7, 2020 29 Comments
A collage of three WNBA Wubble couples. Left to right: Brittney Griner and Cherelle Griner, Chelsea Gray and Tipesa Mercedes, and Sue Bird and Megan Rapinoe.
Sports

Our Favorite WNBA Wubble Couples

Luckily for us, the result of the Wubble is a seemingly endless stream of TikToks and Instagram Stories that give us a peek into the lives of the players.

Frankie de la Cretaz August 7, 2020 15 Comments
Two characters from the show Transparent receive therapy.
AF+

Into the A+ Advice Box #16: Your Ex Is Getting Married, Closure is a Myth and More!

Worries about a roommate’s mental health, thinking of dating after almost a decade of being single, evangelical parents and bisexuality, what to call your girlfriend when she dominates you, and more.

the team August 7, 2020 12 Comments
The cast of Amazon's new series A League of Their Own, based on the movie of the same name, dressed in costume. From Left to Right: Abbi Jacobson, Chanté Adams, D’Arcy Carden, and Gbemisola Ikumelo
Society + Culture

Also.Also.Also: There’s No Crying in Baseball but There Are Gays in Amazon’s A League of Their Own

An Officially Gay League Of Their Own!! Also: queers are now leaving “the big city” by choice, creating boundaries with your friends is especially important right now, and Michelle Obama on managing her depression.

Carmen Phillips August 6, 2020 14 Comments
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Culture

Culture Of Resistance: Tending The Garden, Ending Grind Culture

People who are overworked, under resourced and overwhelmed do not question, do not push back, do not revolt. How do we dismantle grind culture and cultivate a new culture of rest to collectively sustain our focus on the future?

LaLa Drew August 6, 2020 13 Comments
Gemma Arterton as Alice and Gugu Mbatha-Raw as Vera, sitting together in a field laughing in the film Summerland.
Movie Reviews

“Summerland” Is An Escapist Gay Melodrama And That Might Just Be Enough

There is charm to be had in watching two phenomenally talented straight actresses play out a lesbian relationship in the kind of wartime melodrama that is so often straight and white.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 6, 2020 11 Comments
Dating

What We Wish We’d Known Before We Started Gay Dating

“You don’t have to be friends with the girl you met on Tinder (even if she says “wanna be friends instead?” after two dates and some exceedingly mediocre sex).”

the team August 6, 2020 14 Comments
Nancy Pelosi and the house Democrats kneel on the House of Representative floor while wearing kente cloth, this is an example of performative allyship.
Politics + Activism

How to Avoid Performative Allyship: The Moment Is Over, Time to Join the Movement

Performative allyship isn’t helping. If you’re interested in building more than just a “woke” brand and want to be part of lasting, systemic change, here’s where to start.

Abbie Jones August 6, 2020 10 Comments
A screenshot of Holland Taylor saying "MY GOD" on Twitter in response to a tweet about Sarah Paulson's new series, Ratched, which is captioned "You have been subjected to enough pain."
Pop Culture Fix

Pop Culture Fix: Holland Taylor Joins the ‘Murder Me, Mommi’ Movement

Also: Mulan is coming to Disney+, Lena Waithe is making an open marriage drama at Amazon, Lifetime orders an LGBTQ+ Christmas movie, and more!

Heather Hogan August 5, 2020 7 Comments
close-up of dewy bright orange mango flesh fills the whole window
First Person Lesbian Sex

Anatomy of a Mango: Flesh

It seems contradictory to say I learned how to view my body as my own by sharing it with strangers and friends, but it is a truth that I revel in. What I love and learn about these encounters are the parameters of my body, its strengths, and boundaries, what pleases it.

danijanae August 5, 2020 12 Comments
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Meet-Ups / Events Straddleverse

What’s On Our Gay Agenda? Ask Questions, Get Answers at Our Live Town Hall

Autostraddle leadership will your questions live (virtually) with our voices and faces! Ask about the vision, the fundraiser, what we’re planning, our favorite cookies — we want to hear from you and then talk to you through a screen!

Nico August 5, 2020 23 Comments
Chef Melissa King lays back in a chair, in a leather jacket, with her arm back resting against her head. She smolders at the camera.
Celebrities (Vapid Fluff)

No Filter: Chef Melissa King Is Here to Make You Sweat

A Happy Belated Birthday to Ali Krieger! Also, Sara Ramirez and Kate Moennig have some amazing childhood throwbacks for us.

Christina Tucker August 5, 2020 12 Comments
Olivia and Amber look at a phone together while lying on the same bed
TV Reviews

Netflix’s “Get Even” Is “Foxfire” Meets “Pretty Little Liars,” But More Mediocre and Slightly Less Gay

Is ‘Get Even’ a good show with a robust queer storyline? It is not. Did I watch the entire thing in two days anyhow? I sure did!!!! Should you do the same?? Probably!

Riese August 4, 2020 8 Comments
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