Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

Should you tell your friend you’re concerned about her marrying a 20-year old conservative Christian, should you reach back out to someone you ghosted, how do you deal with the aftermath of an emotional affair between your partner and a mutual friend — the team answers these questions about your friendship drama and more!

How do I navigate not knowing for sure whether monogamy or non-monogamy is for me? And how do I communicate that to my partner and my sexy friends?

Plus updates on All American, New Amsterdam, Riverdale, and Nancy Drew!

The team answers your questions about keeping those fires burning!

Karyn Kusama directs the devastating season two finale, “Storytelling.”

Plus updates on New Amsterdam, 4400, Nancy Drew, and Claws!

OnlyFans is banning sexually explicit videos, turning its back on the sex workers that built its platform. Also: How to help someone with depression, our new dating podcast is now Vogue (!!) approved, and what happens when all your co-workers quit?

There is two-girls-kiss gay but there’s also have-the-best-guest-stars gay and for me that’s just as important.

Just like “red flags” can tell you a person might be toxic, overly controlling, or unavailable emotionally, looking for “green flags” can tell you if your partner is, generally, a pretty solid person worth continuing to invest in!

It is a truth universally acknowledged that a woman in trousers and a waistcoat is a lesbian.

You shouldn’t have pain during sex. If you want to explore penetration, that has to be a choice you’re making for your own pleasure.

“There’s a certain point of friendship at which it becomes a blood pact. Certain things, we take to the grave.”

There are 35 films on this attempted list of every lesbian+ movie released in 2021. While the list includes some lesser known fare, there’s also the 2021 Palme d’or winner, several Netflix movies, and a few Oscar contenders.

Plus updates on Roswell, New Mexico; For All Mankind, All Rise, P-Valley, and more!

That cute, chubby hottie you’ve been dating is coming over! Let’s get your space prepped!

Which of the 16 participants in the Gen Q region will move onto the field of 32? You decide — starting now!

The instructions for putting this couch together stated in bold print “this is a two-person job! don’t try and do it by yourself!” and I said, “I’m a dyke” and proceeded to try and put it together by myself.

Malinda Lo talks about writing queerness in different genres, butch/femme dynamics in literature, and the gay Macy’s of the 1960s that didn’t make it into her book.

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to get through this thing called… a season finale! And to celebrate that ending, who better to come on and discuss the joys and successes of a long distance crush, than actor and queer person Elise Bauman?