How to Choose Dating App Photos That’ll Have Babes Swiping Hell Yes
You want to look like your best self: fun, hot, interesting, and lez be real, it doesn’t hurt if you look like you might actually send the first message.
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: Cal Exotics Hidden Pleasure Bullet
When you first look at the Hidden Pleasure Bullet, it looks like your standard “hidden” toy vibrator. I’ve had a few in the past, and specifically use them for when I’m traveling. I have quite a collection of sex toys, but not all of them are able to be packed up when I’m visiting home, for example. This one was something I can throw in my bag, will hopefully get me off when I need it, and that won’t shock my mother should she find it while inevitably going through my things.
How to Write a Swipe-Worthy Dating App Bio
You have to actually say something in your dating app bio! You just do, I’m sorry. Here is how and how not to do that.
“Chilling Adventures Of Sabrina”: The Chaos Ends But Not Without, Well, Chaos
Caught up in the inconsistencies in its own mythologies, the Netflix fantasy-thriller-teen drama-musical struggles to come to a compelling or coherent close.
“Batwoman” Season 2: In Our Ongoing Uprising for Black Lives, Ryan Wilder Is Right on Time
As Ryan Wilder, Javicia Leslie makes it clear — superheroes shine brightest when they are made for their moment.
Pop Culture Fix: Unparalleled Queen Latifah Kicks So Much Ass in “Equalizer”
Hunter Harris in GQ, Javicia Leslie in the Los Angeles Times, Lily Singh in the New York Times, and more!
The Gayest “Critical Role” Moments of The Past Year
Valerie and Meg look back at Critical Role’s gayest moments in 2020 because queer D&D is their favored terrain.
Assume Everyone Thinks You’re Hot, I’m Serious
The confident vibe you get from me? The “naturally sexy” way you (might) think I am? It’s not natural at all. It’s a choice; it can be learned. Here’s how!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is A Massive Vulva Sculpture
An enormous vulva sculpture, sex toys are totally decor, the fun impact melatonin has on sex and more.
“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1302 Recap: Gottmik Publicly Comes Out as Trans — And Hot
Gottmik says that since she had top surgery she loves to have her nipples out and what a gift for us all.
Grease Bats: Doom Scrolling
“I physically don’t know if I can stop!”
How Is Kat Not a Lesbian in This New Cat Cafe Show?
The only thing less believable is how well behaved all these cats are around coffee mugs and pastries.
The Comment Awards Are Remembering to Breathe
“Honestly, my most creative accomplishment this year was recreating the entire movie ‘Labyrinth’ from start to finish on an Animal Crossing island!”
“Detransition, Baby” Is a Book For Trans Women — The Rest of You Are Lucky to Read It
“The truth is I don’t know how to review Detransition, Baby. Torrey was too successful in what she set out to accomplish. If trans women have been and remain her primary audience then I, a trans woman, don’t know what to say from a place of supposed objectivity. The fact that this is not a PDF free on her website but a hardcover book garnering an immense amount of buzz fills me with a joy I can explain and a terror I cannot.”
“Tiny Pretty Things” Review: I Love and Hate This Netflix Ballet Show
Fun and frustrating, derivative and surprising, Netflix’s new ballet show Tiny Pretty Things is undone by its paradoxes.
Into the A+ Advice Box #26: Working Through Shame Around Kink
Grief is not linear, finding help for your top surgery recovery, ways to alleviate feelings of isolation while staying home, and more!
Also.Also.Also: White Supremacist Violence and Insurrection
I absolutely could not bring myself to do our “traditional” twice-a-week link roundup. Instead, today we are going to talk about white power and white supremacy.
The Quiet Parts Get Louder and Louder
The insurrection in DC on January and making sense of this chapter of the story of power in the US.
Disasters as Experiences of Care: How to Pack a Go Bag, Give Mutual Aid in Crisis, and Rethink Queer Preparedness
When I was a teenager, my parents prepped for the y2k crisis. Now I’m trying to understand what queer preparedness looks like in an uncertain time.
Pop Culture Fix: “Impulse” Star Maddie Hasson Casually Comes Out as Bisexual on Instagram
Plus also: The WNBA’s role in saving democracy, a new Batwoman poster, the queer legacy of Sabrina, and more!