You Need Help: How Do I Survive My First Breakup to Stay Friends on the Other Side?
Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting the past, but it does require some space to let your brain and heart breathe.
Dee Rees’ “Pariah” Will Still Break You Open and Let the Light Shine Through
Alike is a chameleon, disappearing in the light of her surroundings — purple in the club, green on the bus, pink at home — only ever showing you her profile when she’s forced to be less than her authentic self.
Take Care of Yourself with 9 Toys Under $50 and $75
Wet For Her has plenty of toys that can take your partnered sex to the next level, but they also have lots that are fantastic for solo play — here are 9 under $50 and $75!
“Everybody (Else) Is Perfect,” Gabrielle Korn’s Debut Essay Collection, Examines the Media World She Helped Create
“Everybody (Else) Is Perfect” is a bold and complicated meditation on media, feminism, and the internet, written from the perspective of a thoughtful and deeply honest insider. It is also very, very gay.
Pop Culture Fix: “Batwoman” and “Queen Sugar” Preview Their #BlackLivesMatter Storylines
Lily Singh explores her impact on the internet, the trailer for Black Lightning season four, the highest paid queer celebs, JoJo Siwa is happier than she’s ever been, and more!
Who Is Newly Out Teen Sensation JoJo Siwa? An Explainer For Those Of Us With No Idea
JoJo Siwa’s coming out last week was a huge deal — but like many elder dykes, I wasn’t sure exactly why. Great news: I am now fully versed regarding wildly popular performer JoJo Siwa and I am here to share my knowledge with you.
“Batwoman” Episode 202 Recap: Hope is Where the Heart Is
Have I mentioned how much I love Ryan Wilder? I have? Okay cool, just checking.
“Euphoria” Finally Gives Jules Agency In A Special Episode Co-Written By Hunter Schafer
All I’ve wanted since Euphoria began was for Sam Levinson to write with people who actually have the characters’ perspectives — this episode shows why.
Which Among These Is Better: Spindrift or LaCroix
I am interested in your opinion regarding whether LaCroix or Spindrift is better. Dramatics are strongly encouraged.
“She’s All Fat” Is a Podcast for Fat Family
As a fat person, the media I consume that is centered on fatness is crucial to creating an environment where I feel supported and uplifted. She’s All Fat is definitely a part of that repertoire.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Likes Mean Things
The deal with love spells, the importance of diplomacy, the blistering erotic potential of celibacy, sex-positive asexuality and some smut.
“RuPaul’s Drag Race” Episode 1304 Recap: Three Hot Businesswomen and One Hot Clown
Because this week’s theme was holiday movies, I have fan casted Happiest Season with the Season 13 queens.
Rein #17: New Hobbies, Same Friends
We’ve all picked up some new interest or hobby that no one else shares. That won’t stop us from talking about it.
Did JoJo Siwa Maybe, Possibly Come Out? Her “Best Gay Cousin” Shirt Thinks So!
JoJo Siwa, the 17-year-old sensation of Dance Moms fame, just broke the Internet.
Boobs on Your Tube: After a Long Lesbian Hiatus, Coop Is Back Front and Center on “All American”
Plus updates on Dickinson, Nancy Drew, FBI: Most Wanted, and Legacies.
The Comment Awards Are Calling Friends on the Landline From Their Grandma’s Sofa
“Carol, if you are reading this… call me.”
Into the A+ Advice Box #27: A Pattern of Growing Tired of Dating Cis Men
What if you don’t like receiving oral sex, but want to? What if you canNOT get your new crush/person out of your head, but need to focus on work? What to do if you’re longing for queer chosen family, but don’t feel like you’ve gotten there, and more!
So You Want to Try Trauma Therapy
Trauma takes our power away and makes us feel like we don’t call the shots in our own lives — but we do. Here are some of the trauma therapies that can help, and how to feel out which one(s) might be right for you.
Also.Also.Also: I’m Out of Puns, but This Year We’re Getting the Therapy We Need
Also, trans men on competing in school sports, those Helen Keller conspiracy theories are ableist, even more love for Amanda Gorman, and yes — helping you afford the therapy you need.
“Portrait of a Bernie on Fire” (and 24 Other Lesbian Shenanigans)
“Today is one of those days I wish I had photoshop skills, because I bet photoshopping that Bernie Sanders meme into famous gay tv scenes would be hilarious.” (And dear reader, it was.)