Making Accessibility Part of My Home
Because the thing is, of course, that my feelings about all the accessibility stuff aren’t really about the stuff at all; my feelings are about the disabilities themselves.
You Need Help: How Do I Know If I’m Really Non-Binary?
There is no “solution” to gender identity.
A Playlist For My Celebrity Crush: Jennifer Lopez
If there’s one thing you can guarantee about me, it’s that I WILL thirst over famous women 45-years-old and up.
Queer Design 103: Where To Find Original Wall Art That Fits Your Style and Budget
Let’s get some interesting, original things on your walls!
Pop Culture Fix: Kat Barrell and Kyana Teresa Bring Great Tidings of Lesbianism in Hallmark’s First Gay Kiss
Also! The Owl House adds a nonbinary character, Tig Notaro as a ghost, Savannah Smith’s Gossip Girl character is a lesbian, and more!
Anonymous Sex Toy Review: The Vagina Gym’s Kegelbell
So what’s something I do when I am a little sad and want things to turn around? Put things inside my pussy!
Meet The 13 Gay Women Basketball Players of the Tokyo Summer Olympics
Somehow, we are still doing this and so, of course, the gays are ready to show up and show out.
It’s Time to Talk about It, “Never Have I Ever” Has a Race Problem
Fabiola’s story taps into a real dynamic in queer communities, but “Never Have I Ever” couldn’t bring itself to actually identify the problem for what it truly is: racism.
“It’s Just a Phase” — Bisexual and Ex-Orthodox Erasure in Netflix’s My Unorthodox Life
We all — Ex-Orthodox, Orthodox, and bisexual — deserve better from Netflix than the perpetuation of misconceptions about our identities.
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday Is Into Indie Sex Toys
15 questions to evaluate your relationship, what to do if you’re jealous of a partner’s friend, the Olympic “anti-sex” beds and more.
Boobs on Your Tube: “All American” Promises Heart Thumping Romance and Cliffhangers Hand-in-Hand in Its Season Finale
Plus updates on the latest episode of American Horror Stories, The Republic of Sarah, the second season finale of Betty, and it’s Halloween on Motherland: Fort Salem.
“Drawn” Review: Tig Notaro’s Animated Special Is a Guaranteed Blip of Healing Serotonin
Drawn is quintessentially Tig Notaro: dry, gently sardonic, softly sprawling stories that pull back the curtain on the every day pain and absurdity of just being a human being in this weird world.
Atypical’s Casey and Izzie Join The Magical Unicorn Club of Queer Happy Endings
Stories are the things that make us human, and real gay people still need to see fictional gay people finding happy endings to know happy endings are possible for them too.
The Comment Awards Have Until 2080 to Find A Better Name for the Gay-Lympics
“Just in time for my Sports Gay Summer! (A summer in which I, queer, play absolutely no sports but admire the athletes, gay, who do).”
Into the A+ Advice Box #40: Spaces & Places
The Autostraddle team tackles questions from asking your girlfriend to move in, decorating a new space after a divorce, healing after homelessness, decorating with a partner, making a space with roommates feel like your own, to carving out space for yourself on your commute, and more in this special Spaces & Places edition of Into the A+ Advice Box!
Also.Also.Also: 13 Reasons Why’s Tommy Dorfman Is Trans, And We Love This for Her!
The first new Brandi Carlile single in three years!! A new personal essay from Roxane Gay, voting rights threaten white power (never forget), and revisiting the iconic Pink Motorola RAZR phone.
“Good Trouble” Episode 312 Recap: The Shame Game
Alice returns to her comedy program with a hero’s welcome — and is immediately faced with more cis white dude garbage decisions.
I Came Out to My Parents Using a Slide Show, And So Can You!
The best use of a graphic design degree is a gay animated slide deck.
S L I C K: Accept Transformation, Part 2
“If I see that He’s hard, I drop everything,” Nix said. “My mind goes blank. I stop what I’m doing. Strip. Fall to my knees. Mouth open, arms behind me. Ready for Him to fuck me in the face.”
Somebody Loves You Baby: When Patti LaBelle Taught Me Black Femme Desire
After the song’s gentle teasing passes, Patti exclaims, “it’s me,” the somebody who loves you. I think of the women I have loved, despite the ways we have hurt each other.