American Highway Infrastructure Is Evil and Other Lessons From My Long Distance Lesbian Relationship
Also: Podcasts are extinct — just call your yappy girlfriend!
Quiz: What Premature Commitment Should You Make This Cuffing Season?
Find out what ill-advised BIG step to take with your person who you maybe haven’t even defined the relationship with.
Anatomy of a Queer Sex Scene: Cruel Intentions Is the Horniest Movie of All Time
Cruel Intentions is an interesting movie in that it doesn’t have a ton of EXPLICIT queerness and yet it probably plays a significant role in more queer awakenings than most very queer movies.
Reine #67: Handy Masc
Having a booboo is so butch.
I’m Inexperienced and Panicked That I’ll Be Bad at Sex
How to navigate dating apps when you have very limited sexual experience?! Also, a reader feels isolated after experiencing profound family loss.
What’s Your Favorite + Least Favorite Household Chore?
Turns out a lot of us hate folding laundry.
30 Winter Mocktails To Get Cozy With
Queue up a fake fire on your TV and have mocktails by a mockfire.
Queer Horoscopes for Sagittarius Season 2024
Sagittarius season encourages us to have independent thoughts and actions.
“My Body, My Choice!”: Unpacking the Queer Subtexts of ‘Junior’ 30 Years Later
Ivan Reitman’s second team-up of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny DeVito after Twins (1988) has a bit of a cult status in my queer friend group.
‘The Sex Lives of College Girls’ Season Three Struggles To Let Go of Reneé Rapp
While The Sex Lives of College Girls succeeds in ushering Rapp off the canvas, it’s less successful in navigating its third season without her.
We’re Watching Trans Media Wrong
Very few movies are Bad or Good, Offensive or Inoffensive, Positive or Harmful.
I Believe We Shouldn’t Own Guns. I’m Learning How To Shoot One Anyway
Everyone needs to stop being so flippant about telling queer and trans people to buy guns.
Affirmations You Can Say to Yourself in the Mirror Every Morning That Are Just Direct Quotes From ‘Cruel Intentions’
Tired: Start your day by setting intentions.
Wired: Start your day by quoting Cruel Intentions.
Is ‘Real Housewives of New York’ the New ‘L Word’?
Racquel and Mel are bringing queerness to RHONY beyond the visibility of their relationship.
No Filter: Chappell Roan Deserves a Break
Plus, a photo of Melissa King that will have you screaming YES, CHEF!!!!!!
Rebels Against Disney Have Uploaded the Cut Trans Episode of ‘Moon Girl and Devil Dinosaur’
The completed episode of the Marvel animated series appeared to have been cut due to its pro-trans message.
Baby Steps #1: How We Got Gay Pregnant
My wife and I are having a baby and this is the first edition of Baby Steps, a column about the gestation and eventual birth of this human child who I think is going to be pretty tall!
I Can’t Believe They Went to a Dyke Bar (Again!) on ‘Real Housewives of New York’
Racquel, Hot Mel, Erin, and Abe head to The Bush in Brooklyn.
‘How Can I Talk to My Friend/Crush About Sexual Compatibility Without Being Weird?’
Does it make sense to suggest talking about how we feel about kissing/ cuddling/ sex-related stuff/etc.? And if so, what’s the best way to go about it respectfully and in an ace-affirming way?
‘Arcane’ Continues With Hope, Heartache, and a Goth Era
“I can appreciate a girl who’s down bad and Cait sure is that!”