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Meet-Ups / Events

Next Weekend: You, Us, the A+ Pop-Up Discord?

And a hang with the senior team on Friday!

Nico October 29, 2022 3 Comments
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Puzzles

The Autostraddle Crossword #1: 100% That Stitch

Hope you like gossip and queer history, because this puzzle is legendary!

Laneia October 29, 2022 33 Comments
TV Feature

Why is Season 3 of “Love is Blind” So Heterosexual?

“Season Three of Love is Blind is, somehow, remarkably heterosexual, despite its premise retaining deep roots in lesbian cultural practices.”

Riese October 29, 2022 18 Comments
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Straddleverse

Your Comments Showed Me I Wasn’t Alone

“Sharing my stories with that audience never felt right — I always felt like I was explaining, never that I was just telling my truth.”

Sa'iyda Shabazz October 29, 2022 3 Comments
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Beauty Style

AM/PM: A Fall Beat For a Day Of Writing In My New Apartment

“It’s not full glam but it’s perfect for sitting, typing, and of course — stopping to take a few hot pics along the way.”

danijanae October 29, 2022 4 Comments
In a three panel comic the colors of dark and light peach and also turquoise, it says "Geese" in bold letters. Beneath it are two Black people, one person asks the other what type of bird they are looking at. The answer is "Geese." The first person asks, how can you tell?
Webcomics

Reine #40: Geese

When you move from the south to the north, you learn a lot about the changing of the seasons.

Ren Strapp October 29, 2022 3 Comments
Vampire Academy: Meredith gently holds Mia's face as she kisses her gently because vampires are gay
TV Show Recaps

Boobs on Your Tube: Vampire Academy’s Gay Vamps Are a Tasty Halloween Treat

Plus updates on 9-1-1, The Rookie: Feds, Queen Sugar, All American, Station 19 and Survivor!

Natalie and Valerie Anne
October 28, 2022 7 Comments
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TV Show Recaps

Beth Ditto’s Lesbian Country Star Goes Full “Goodbye, Earl” on “Monarch”

This week’s episode had me screeching and gasping like a sexy baby who’s never seen a TV show in her entire life.

Heather Hogan October 28, 2022 3 Comments
black and white photos of the autostraddle team are set against a lime green backdrop and behind negroni spagliattos. riese is a white woman with blonde hair and is holding a water bottle and smiling. Carmen is a Black woman with her hair up in a wrap drinking from a water bottle and smiling. Viv is an Asian human with short hair drinking from a glass water bottle and looking serious. Anya is a white woman with long brown hair and glasses drinking from a mug with a cat on it. Laneia is a white woman with short dark hair in this photo drinking from a giant jar of something which is maybe tea. She also has glasses. Nico is a white genderqueer human drinking from a coffee thermos and wearing glasses. Their hair is bleached and short and shaved on the sides. Kayla is a South Asian woman with long brown hair and glasses who is smiling over a cute little cocktail and heather is a soft butch white woman with short hair and glasses holding up one of our PRAY THE GAY TO STAY fundraiser mugs
AF+

Some Answers to Some Things You’ve Been Asking Us #44

“Ok someone had previously asked if Autostraddle was going to write a piece on How To Build a Sex Room and I did not realize it was a SHOW I just thought someone was requesting extremely specific DIY content?????”

The Editors October 28, 2022 9 Comments
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Straddleverse

How To Blow Up Your Life

I thought that by 35, I’d be married. I thought by 35, I’d have kids. I thought I’d be straight.

Carmen Phillips October 28, 2022 18 Comments
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Halloween

Quiz: What Last Minute Halloween Costume Should You Throw Together?

No costume? No problem. Take this personality quiz to see what last minute Halloween costume best fits your vibes.

Lucia October 28, 2022 17 Comments
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Straddleverse

The Comment Awards Are Releasing the Bees

“How is Bud Lite like having sex in a canoe?”

Darcy October 28, 2022 8 Comments
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Movie Reviews

“Please, Baby, Please” Is a Gay Fantasia On National Genders

Amanda Kramer’s new film, Please, Baby, Please, is an exploration of gender entirely on its own terms, entirely on our terms. It’s a relief to be spoken to with such complexity and humor.

Drew Burnett Gregory October 28, 2022 4 Comments
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Movie Features

The Horrors of “Ravenous” Are Difficult To Digest

The plotline, the script, and the direction of the film are all critical of not only the colonialism of the early U.S. settlers, but also of the U.S. military, of the Christian church, and, of course, of the masculinity of those who think participation in any of these things makes them more righteous than anyone else.

Stef Rubino October 28, 2022 1 Comment
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Identity

46 Very Special Ways You Explained Your Sexual or Romantic Orientation on the 2022 Autostraddle Reader Survey

“i don’t know if i’m bisexual or a lesbian but i am a girlkisser so jot that down”

Riese October 28, 2022 22 Comments
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Movie Features

Two Decades Ago, a Lesbian Slasher Movie Came Out — Then It Turned Into a Ghost

In 2004, there were two queer slashers making the festival rounds. But you’ve probably only heard of one.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 27, 2022 4 Comments
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Straddleverse

STILL HERE AND QUEER AFTER ALL THESE YEARS — Queer Media Needs Your Help!

“This is the most urgent I have ever felt”

Nico October 27, 2022 29 Comments
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Culture

Today I Wondered Why AFAB Was Trending on Twitter

Did I figure it out?

Nico October 27, 2022
Guinevere Turner says "I know some perfectly horrible homosexuals" in Queer for Fear.
TV Reviews

Shudder’s “Queer for Fear” Shows Horror Has Always Been So Gay

But sometimes it shows its work on only the most basic level.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 27, 2022 5 Comments
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Comedy

Bud Light Is the Dykiest Domestic Lager — Change My Mind

All other American-style light lagers taste bad (and therefore are straight).

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya October 27, 2022 18 Comments
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