In the early days of 2019 I’ve found myself really drawn to books and TV and movies and podcasts that are full of light and warmth and hard-won happiness. Enter: Days of Our Wives.

Advice on how to stay friends when the friend you hooked up with wants more, flagging with carabiners, and whether it’s okay if your wife is your only IRL friend.

Deborah and Ava are in each other’s heads. Plus: hot moms, mommy issues, and more hallmarks of a great pair of Hacks episodes.

“There’s so much in our world that’s worth changing. And it’s worth working on together.”

If we are approaching All American’s end, it’s sad for a whole host of reasons but especially because of the lackluster writing this season. Plus, is Grey’s Anatomy finally turning up the heat on Amelia’s latest slow burn? And your weekly recaps of The Chi and Pretty Little Liars: Summer School.

Also! The very hot marriage of Niecy Nash and Jessica Betts, the Hocus Pocus 2 teaser trailer, and is Jodie Foster actually going to be gay in True Detective???

Heather knows, she knows, how to connect with people through stories and writing, she knows how to make you feel seen, buoyed, valued, special, important, remarkable.

I presented my lesbianism to the cis world like a child showing her parents a new drawing.

Paper Girls has been cancelled, Sara Quin is so excited to be a parent, Sue Bird and Megan Rapinoe are the ultimate sports power couple, and more!

Plus updates on Class of 09 and Nancy Drew!

A lot of different arguments could be made as to the truth behind the Antler Queen veil, and I have accordingly put on my high school debate team hat to try to make several different cases at once, concluding with my final and favorite theory.

Your untethered choices during the Blue Supermoon in Pisces, a questionable and surely irresponsible horoscope.

Plus! Updates on NCIS: Hawai’i, All American, and American Horror Story!

When I was in fourth grade, I got in trouble for discussing how fast my body would decompose if I was stabbed.

In honor of this week’s release of “Grease: Rise of the Pink Ladies,” we are ranking every character from Grease and Grease 2 by lesbianism.

As a child, I wasn’t different because I was gay (that came with teenagehood), I was different because I was autistic. 

After being queer coded for years, everyone expected that Valkyrie would finally have a major gay storyline. And yet! How did Marvel still get it so wrong?

May I just say, for two people who have very deliberately kept their faces from smooshing together in public, these two faces look VERY GOOD smooshed together. 

46. Look at the menu beforehand.

We’re saying goodbye to Maya and Carina on Station 19, Jules and Yasuda build up sexual tension in the Grey’s Anatomy season finale and recaps of All-American, Pretty Little Liars: Summer School, 9-1-1 and Beacon 23.