Neither Of Us Know How To Make the First Move Sober. Will We Ever Have Sex Again?
Now that you’re sober, you’ve forgotten how to successfully initiate sex! Also, a reader’s partner has checked out post-election.
Kelley O’Hara and Filmmaking Duo Tusk Want More Lesbian Happy Endings
Kelley O’Hara, executive producer of the new film Ripe!, wants to see more sapphic joy like her own on-screen.
The Gray Sweatpants That Changed Everything
I can be femme and strong and gay and comfortable and hot and relaxed, all embodied in one outfit.
Ruby Cruz Joins ‘The Sex Lives of College Girls’ and Shares Her Favorite Horror Movies
“I’m always down to contribute to more queer representation. Always down.”
What It’s Like To Get Divorced, Come Out, Fall in Queer Love, and Then Tell Jokes About All of It on Stage
Comedian Britt Migs’ solo show Dolphin Mode isn’t just a divorce story; it’s also a coming-out story and a love story.
The Erotics of Masks
Wearing a mask felt similar to how I usually identified as a stone top.
What If The Girl You Made Out With On New Year’s Eve Becomes Your Wife?
“You tell everyone you see that night, including but not limited to all the friends you came with, another friend you run into, a stranger on the street, your dog and your Uber driver, that you are not going to have sex because you don’t want to ruin the friendship.”
Queer Horoscopes for the Year 2025
Find out what 2025 will bring you with love, career, money, health, and more!
January 2025: What’s New, Gay and Streaming on Netflix, Max, Prime Video, Peacock and Apple TV
We’ve got new seasons of XO Kitty, Harley Quinn, Harlem, Mystic Quest and The Traitors, a dynamic film series that reimagines old classics, a new Harlan Coban mystery and more!
The Most Popular Autostraddle Posts of 2024
These are the most-read Autostraddle stories of 2024 — the top personal essays, reported features, quizzes, celebrity news and more.
If I Don’t See Snow Soon I’m Going To Scream
I have nothing to prove 2023 was the first year of my life when I didn’t see snow on the ground other than my memories.
‘I Want To Be With a Woman, but My Inexperience Makes Me Feel Really Insecure’
“I fear being ‘made fun of’ or ‘rejected’ in a way.”
Every Pedro Almodóvar Movie Ranked
Find out where Almodóvar’s latest The Room Next Door ranks among the queer film icon’s body of work!
Your Gay Aunties Elphaba and Glinda Enjoy Train Snacks, Plan Oz Itinerary, Take Cat Nap in Deleted “Wicked” Scene
A deleted Wicked scene is released, Towa Bird wants to look like lesbian Mick Jagger, Rebel Wilson got married again (to the same person), and more pop culture news for you
The Ultimate Queer Workout Playlist To Get You Actually Excited About the Gym
If you’re anything like me, you’ve avoided The Gym because it’s a scary place.
New Years Resolutions but It’s Just Cool Things Shane Did in ‘The L Word’
In 2025, I will have an affair with an older married woman.
Quiz: Which Iconic Gay Character of 2024 Are You?
So many queer stories were told this year — which character represents yours? Chappell Roan? Cam from “Under the Bridge”? Literal Death from “Agatha All Along”? The incomparable Ellie the Elephant? Find out now!
20 Iconic Sapphic Pop Culture Moments of 2024
Lesbians and bisexuals sure got up to some things in 2024 — from Megan Thee Stallion’s strap to Kristen Stewart’s pantsless press tour to rugby’s lesbians to Tracy Chapman’s fingers, these were just some of the moments that defined sapphic pop culture in 2024.
Baopu #130: Flying Past Local Stops
If walls didn’t exist, how playful could we be?
Good Boys Bonus Episode: Good Boy… Friends
The Good Boys’ girlfriends hop on the pod to discuss top surgery care, how to handle testosterone-inspired sex drive differentials, saying no to getting head, masturbating with the curtains closed, holding on to dyke identification when your partner transitions, embracing femininity on T and how Kylo made dinner one time.