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Playlists

23 of the Best Songs by Queer Artists in 2021

This was a great year for LGBTQ music and my gay little heart.

danijanae December 17, 2021 15 Comments
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Music Playlists

A Playlist For My Celebrity Crush: Jennifer Lopez

If there’s one thing you can guarantee about me, it’s that I WILL thirst over famous women 45-years-old and up.

Kayla Kumari Upadhyaya July 27, 2021 3 Comments
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Playlists

Playlist: This Love Is Not A Lie, But It’s Complicated

I believe that love is real, but I’m definitely not looking at it through big, gay rose-colored glasses!

Ro White February 12, 2021 3 Comments
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Playlists

Playlist: That Love Was a Lie

We’re kicking off today’s festivities with a super neutral, super chill playlist of breakup songs. Is love a lie?? I mean, you tell us.

the team February 12, 2021 4 Comments
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AF+ Playlists

Snuggling With Our Sadness: A Cold Months Playlist by the Team

“I have seasonal affective disorder which is what I call my year round depression when it’s winter. So, sure, Tidal is always one of my go-to sad girl albums, but it just feels so right this time of year!”

the team December 14, 2020 4 Comments
Two Black women dance on a sofa wearing headphones.
Playlists

Pull Up To The Bumper: A Butt Week Playlist

You better pull up to the bumper, bend and make your booty whop and shake it like a polaroid picture because it’s time for a playlist that celebrates the backside!

Ro White October 18, 2020 10 Comments
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Playlists

Playlist: Western Classic Music to Soothe the Soul for the Difficult Weeks Ahead

Friends, there is barely a month until the US election. Oh, certainly there is some despair and some grief, but most of all this playlist aims to soothe. I hope you find some solace in these tunes, like I do.

himani October 2, 2020 8 Comments
A collage of three queer Canadian musicians: First is Ria Mae, then Peaches, and last is Tika. Ria Mae and Peaches are performing on stage, while Tika stares directly into the camera.
Playlists

38 Amazing Queer Canadian Musicians You Should Know

“If this song sounds familiar, that’s because it and the band were on The L Word, in that episode where Shane shows up at Carmen’s work and they make out in the bathroom while a band plays on the balcony.”

Casey September 16, 2020 13 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Musical Theatre for the End of Capitalism

We can end capitalism, and we will do it with showtunes! Because, to quote famed lesbian Elphaba, “Nobody in all of Oz, no wizard that there is or was, is EVER gonna bring me down!”

Ari August 10, 2020 9 Comments
A sad teenage lesbian full of loneliness and missing her friendships, listening to a playlist on her iPhone while looking out a window with a handprinted rainbow on it.
Friendship Playlists

Songs to Come Home to: A Pandemic Friendship and Loneliness Playlist

This isn’t a collection of songs about friendship, but rather an attempt to capture all my complicated and gooey friendship feelings — the biggest feeling being I REALLY MISS MY FRIENDS.

Drew Burnett Gregory August 4, 2020 2 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: My Favorite Anti-Cop, Pro-Black Songs for the Revolution

These past few weeks I’ve been drawn to music that is anti-cop, anti-establishment, and/or pro-black. These songs span genre but mostly lie somewhere between punk and hip hop. They embody either my rage or my love for the unwavering strength, resilience, and spirit of black people.

danijanae July 1, 2020 11 Comments
Playlists

Stonewall Was an Uprising: A Playlist for Finding the Joy in the Struggle

For Black queer and trans people, insisting on cultivating joy might be the most radical move of all.

Abbie Jones June 12, 2020 2 Comments
Playlists

The Single Queer’s Quarantine Playlist

There aren’t a ton of songs specifically about vague longing in the middle of a global pandemic, so consider this playlist a narrative journey of feelings.

Drew Burnett Gregory May 4, 2020 6 Comments
Playlists

Quarantine Survival Playlist: We’re on a Roller Coaster

This is like a driving playlist except it’s for driving around your house – it’s a collection of moods that one might pass through in a day (or an hour) of being alone with our thoughts at home. Do you feel like you’re on a roller coaster and can’t get off?

Molly April 27, 2020 10 Comments
Playlists

Quarantine Survival Playlist: “Self-Love for Self-Isolation”

If you’re not living with your partner, the only person you’re having sex with right now is yourself. You deserve to practice elaborate masturbation in your life. And now’s the perfect time!

Abbie Jones April 23, 2020 5 Comments
Playlists

Songs for Your Gay Pain: A Playlist for Leaning into the Longing

As a known homosexual, my two greatest skills are yearning and making playlists.

Ro White April 14, 2020 9 Comments
Halloween Playlists

Two Spooky Playlists For ALL Your Gay Halloween Music Needs

Some people just want a nice casual playlist for their Halloween party! So, I decided to split all of the song spooky suggestions into two playlists.

Abbie Jones October 18, 2019 35 Comments
Playlists

Playlist: Am I in Love With the Person I Had Sex With Once or Is It Cancer Season?

I don’t know if I’m about to get murdered or married or literally never hear from her again. And I don’t really care??

Drew Burnett Gregory July 2, 2019 9 Comments
Playlists

10 Summer Tracks for Girls Who Want Girls

This summer I want to kiss girls. Girls sticky with lipgloss, girls purple with lipstain, girls sweet with cherry chapstick. I dream about kissing girls in my car (front or back seat). I dream about kissing them in the shade or in the sun. We are always a little bit sweaty and smelling like grass. We are always kissing to music.

Sara Youngblood Gregory May 2, 2019 3 Comments
Playlists

A Playlist to End The Longest Black History Month EVER. Let’s Party.

I’m ready to kiss the last hours of the longest 28 days on record away with a f*cking party and a playlist full of bangers!

Carmen Phillips February 28, 2019 6 Comments
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