View From The Top: The First Time I Knew I Was a Top
The first time I knew I was a top was when a girl I was dating said, “Please, hit me harder,” and then, later, whispered, “I can take more than you can give me.”
Bottoms Up: That Time I Told My Boifriend I Liked Being Told What to Do
How do you tell someone, “Hey, I’d love it if you’d slap me around and tell me what to do”?
Turns out, you tell them just like that.
Is Period Sex The Ultimate Lesbian Sexual Indicator?
People who want to have period sex have more and varied sex more often and report higher sexual satisfaction than anyone else, a survey finds.
“I Sit on Her Face All Day”: A Conversation on Sex and Wheelchairs
Exploring the erotic significance of wheelchairs is an opportunity to refuse the limited choices available for sexual narration.
View From The Top: I Started As A Bottom
Started as a bottom, now I’m here.
Love Non-Orgasmically: She’s Not Coming But We’re Still Here
“I came. You didn’t. I’d kind of expected it to happen because of our connection – hoped egotistically anyway. I was disappointed but figured I’d give it time.”
10 Ideas From “The Ultimate Guide To Kink” That Even Vanilla People Will Be Into
If you want an overview of everything kinky and don’t know where to start, this is where.
14 Lesbian Sexual Fantasies Submitted By Anonymous Women To 1973’s “My Secret Garden”
“I had slight lesbian tendencies before going into the convent…”
9 Ways To Think About What Sex Is And Isn’t From ‘The Sex Myth’
The Sex Myth will make you rethink the way you think about the role of sex in your life, whatever it looks like.
9 Sex-Life-Changing Tips From “Girl Sex 101”
If you only plan to read one book about sex, ever, make it Girl Sex 101.
Happy International Fisting Day! Celebrate With Five Queer Fisting Scenes
Celebrate International Fisting Day with these scenes from the Crash Pad Series.
You Need Help: Getting It On After Hip Replacement Surgery
The good news is: your wife’s new hip will probably make your sex life even better! Here’s some tips for easing back into it.
You Need Help: You’re Vanilla And Your Partner Is Kinky
How to explore kinky sex with a kinky partner when you have no experience whatsoever.
10 Lesbian Sex Scenes I Wrote Before I Had Lesbian Sex
“Elizabeth kissed her back, passionately and crazily! It felt like being beat by ocean waves — but in a good way.”
10 Lesbianish Sex Books To Make You Better In Bed
Want to know how to have lesbian sex? These books have your back.
87% Of Queer Women Are Into Porn or Erotica, But Not All Of It Is Lesbionic
Our latest round of results from the 2015 Ultimate Lesbian Sex Survey is all about the porn, erotica and smut you consume and how often you consume it — and why so many queer women watch straight or gay male porn instead of girl-on-girl.
You Need Help: When a Yeast Infection is Cramping Your Sex Style
Let’s get down to business. The business of getting down to business with an itchy vag.
Here’s The Salacious Sex Statistics On Queer Women In Non-monogamous vs. Monogamous Relationships
Everything you ever wanted to know about the sex lives of the monogamous, non-monogamous, and those preferring various sub-styles of relationship. SO MANY THINGS. IT’S ALL HERE.
When Did You Do It For The First Time and How Many People Have You Done It With, Huh?
Oh you know, just the answers to everybody’s favorite two questions ever.
Women’s Best Bet For A Synced-Up Sex Schedule Is Lesbianism
A new survey finds that men and women like having sex at totally different times of day — how do their numbers compare to ours about when queer women like having sex?