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Why Lesbian Shower Sex Is Like Dante’s Inferno (And How to Make It Suck Less)

Everything you need to know about how to have lesbian shower sex, including positions, tips, how to avoid falling into the ninth circle of Dante’s Inferno and more.

Ryan Yates April 24, 2018 7 Comments
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“The Gift” Is Young M.A’s Gift to Lesbian Porn

Young M.A directed a porn and well, it’s porn!

Ari April 24, 2018 16 Comments
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You Need Help: You Want to Have Sex But Also Sex Is a Lot Wow So Complicated

You and your girlfriend don’t have to have sex unless you both want to have sex, no matter how long you’ve been dating. But also if you DO wanna have sex while respecting your history of trauma, here are some tips!

KaeLyn April 24, 2018 12 Comments
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How to Soundproof for Kinky Sex

If you want to make your sex or kink life a little quieter and a little more soundproof, here’s what you can try on your own.

Ryan Yates April 10, 2018 5 Comments
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You Need Help: You Don’t Know What To Do With Your Clit

Every body has a history; yours doesn’t preclude you from pleasure. Go forth and jam!

A.E. Osworth April 10, 2018 10 Comments
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10 Tips For Better Lesbian Sexting

Here’s how to take your sexting to the next level, including what to say, how to say it, how to give good sext and more.

Ryan Yates March 27, 2018 12 Comments
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How To Eat Ass

Everyone has an ass. Here’s how to eat one.

Ryan Yates March 13, 2018 13 Comments
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How To Have A Lesbian Threesome

Planning your first threesome? Here’s how to do it.

Ryan Yates February 20, 2018 34 Comments
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You Need Help: Is It Normal to Feel Sexy When You Gain Weight? (Yes)

“There’s nothing better than finding out the way you love your body the most, and you’ve done that. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad or weird for that.”

Mey February 14, 2018 24 Comments
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How To Have Lesbian Period Sex

Here’s how to live your patriarchy-smashing lesbian period sex vampire dreams.

Ryan Yates February 13, 2018 9 Comments
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Lesbian Fisting 101

Fisting is my number one favorite penetrative queer lesbian sex move. Fisting is AWESOME. Here’s how to do it right.

Ryan Yates February 6, 2018 27 Comments
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25 Pictures Technically Not of Lesbian Sex According to Stock Photography

“I realized all the lesbian sex photos were hiding where they usually do: in Close Female Friendship City.”

Riese January 25, 2018 37 Comments
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How To Give (Or Get) a Strap-On Blow Job

Strap-on blow jobs are subversive and super hot. Learn how to give or get one right here.

Ryan Yates January 23, 2018 20 Comments
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You Need Help: When Strap-On Sex Leaves (Accidental) Bruises

Strap-on sex shouldn’t leave any bruises unless you want it to.

A.E. Osworth January 11, 2018 8 Comments
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What Are Dental Dams, and How Do They Work?

Why dental dams are the safer sex tool no one gives a shit about, and why it’s time to start.

Ryan Yates January 9, 2018 23 Comments
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How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)

It took be months to bring myself to ask the question I’d wanted to ask since coming out: How am I supposed to have sex if I hate my genitals?

Calliope Marcy Jennings December 12, 2017 11 Comments
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A+ Roundtable: Misconceptions About Lesbian Sex

There was a time before time, in the yawning abyss of darkness and starfire that is the infinite and ever-expanding universe — a time before any of us had had lesbian sex. Most of us thought about it, though, or tried to imagine how it would work! We were not always correct.

the team December 11, 2017 37 Comments
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You Need Help: Relearning Sex with Chronic Pain

The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.

Guest November 27, 2017 2 Comments
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How I Learned to Navigate Vaginismus as a Lesbian

“This is what happened for me: I started crying as soon as I put my legs into the stirrups.”

Lauren November 14, 2017 29 Comments
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“Do Fingers Count?” Vulvodynia, Medical Heteronormativity and Me

Doctors agreed about what kind of sex I should want to have, and how much pain and inconvenience I should be willing to endure to have it.

Guest November 6, 2017 51 Comments
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