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A+ Roundtable: Misconceptions About Lesbian Sex

There was a time before time, in the yawning abyss of darkness and starfire that is the infinite and ever-expanding universe — a time before any of us had had lesbian sex. Most of us thought about it, though, or tried to imagine how it would work! We were not always correct.

the team December 11, 2017 37 Comments
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The weight of expectation does not belong in bed with you.

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I Went to Skirt Club, a Lesbian Sex Party for Straight Women

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Natalie West August 9, 2017 105 Comments
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You Need Help: It’s Okay If You Haven’t Had Sex Yet

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Ryan Yates August 7, 2017 22 Comments
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Chelsea Poe’s “Inauthentic Masterpiece” and Earnest Integrity

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Courtney Trouble July 18, 2017 6 Comments
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You Need Help: Grad School Killed Your Sex Life

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Christina Tesoro June 14, 2017 7 Comments
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The Top 5 Worst Songs I’ve Had Sex To

In the world of sex, choosing the right song is key. In my life, sometimes I choose songs that are just right, and sometimes a song gets associated with something especially heinous. These are their stories.

Ari June 13, 2017 64 Comments
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How To Safely Make Yourself Slippery (With Lube!)

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Masturbation Month and Beyond: A Staff Survey Experience

May is Masturbation Month! Here’s how the AS staff does it, featuring first time stories, all the weird places we’ve masturbated, how we feel about that and more.

Ryan Yates May 29, 2017 15 Comments
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22 Easy Steps to Rethinking Your Whole Relationship Through Late-Night Nudes

Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?

Courtney May 18, 2017 23 Comments
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Ryan Yates May 3, 2017 42 Comments
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