“For queer women, clothing is about much more than what you’re wearing. Clothing allows us to create an identity for ourselves—and to control how other people view us and consider us.”
Topics include Nick Drake, the hunt for a missing autistic child, the morning-after pill, nannies, homeless teens in Boystown, teevee preachers, where i write and more!
Ali’s Team Pick: Do you like food? Do you like cursing? So do I! And so does this web designer, and he’s telling you where to f*cking eat your f*cking dinner.
The literary badass and sexual liberation babe passed away last week at 88, and that was how I discovered him.
Where have collar tips been all my life?
Get ready to have #soccerfeelings x 392375 because of course it came down to USA and Japan.
It’s been six latherless months, but I still smell great.
The rumors are true: Gabby and Carly are hosting Queer Ladies Speed-Dating at the Strand in New York next week!
I’m just here for the food, but apparently everyone else is here for the fight.
“Girlfriends will love you and leave you, but your four-legged friend’s desire to wake you each morning with an enthusiastic lick will never waver.”
The state of Michigan isn’t having a banner year as far as treating its gay citizens equally goes.
Let’s talk about our feelings.
The City of Brotherly Love’s got plenty to do for ladies of all stripes.
How to queer air mail and make your pen pal happy.
Think pot-sticker meets banana pancake dessert goodness.
“The fact that an openly gay candidate can win by such a large margin speaks to the notion that… voters vote based on the character of the person and their values, not their sexual orientation.”
Here is a mix that says “Hey! This super sexy music compels you to put your face on my face already!”
The problem is that not everyone knows women aren’t biologically limited to washing dishes. Dr. Ben Barres studies brains, is trans, and shares his unique perspective on this un-news.
Also, maybe it’s the act of striving to achieve an impossible aesthetic that makes us miserable. Neat!
In the rural South, the word “tomboy” is basically a euphemism for “She’s genderqueer, and she may or may not grow out of it. Hell if we know.”