Welcome to NSFW Sunday!
Tifa Reed Hilton and Cam via indoctrinatethemasses
+ BDSM isn’t just hot because you get to tie people up and hit them. It’s also hot for other reasons:
“Every relationship is fraught with some kind of power dynamic or power struggle, kink just brings this existing dynamic to the fore and plays with it. You don’t need to live a full-time kink lifestyle to incorporate power into your play. The simple act of one person being on their knees is enough to create a power differential. Having one partner crawl takes it to still another level. You can also add power play to your sex. Holding your partners head while they go down on you is a great example. Also try making your partner ask permission to orgasm.”
+ At the Hairpin, Lindsay King-Miller answers questions about how to stop blaming yourself when people have treated you badly, having young queers and old heterosexuals get along at your wedding, whether you’re ever too old to be a baby gay (answer: no) and whether you can wear out a kink:
“There’s always a chance that you’re the outliers, of course, but most people will tell you with a fair amount of confidence that Kinks Are Forever (like diamonds, but without all the artificially inflated prices and restrictive gender roles). Yes, sometimes you try out something you’ve been fantasizing about and realize you like it way less in real life than in your head, but usually that happens out of the gate, not after weeks of relentless fucking. Give yourselves some time to recharge your batteries (both figuratively and literally, because nothing says “I’m committed to lowering my carbon footprint in 2014″ like greener sex toys), and I’d be willing to bet your kinks will start to feel exciting again before too long.”
Chantalille, photo by andrew thomas clifton via andrew clifton
+ At Oh Joy Sex Toy, Erika Moen interviewed porn star Stoya.
+ There is now a drive-through sex shop in Brisbane, Australia.
Camie from sg-babes
+ People who are better off socio-economically report being more sexually satisfied than people who aren’t, according to a study from the Barcelona Public Health Agency.
+ Here are all the Sports Illustrated swim suit edition covers.
+ Sex Sent Me To The ER: A show that exists.
Jenny Shimizu via alivetillthe-end.tumblr.com
+ Having sex makes you smarter, according to two new studies:
“Researchers in Maryland and South Korea recently found that sexual activity in mice and rats improves mental performance and increases neurogenesis (the production of new neurons) in the hippocampus, where long-term memories are formed.
In April, a team from the University of Maryland reported that middle-aged rats permitted to engage in sex showed signs of improved cognitive function and hippocampal function. In November, a group from Konkuk University in Seoul concluded that sexual activity counteracts the memory-robbing effects of chronic stress in mice. ‘Sexual interaction could be helpful,’ they wrote, ‘for buffering adult hippocampal neurogenesis and recognition memory function against the suppressive actions of chronic stress.'”
+ Being a sex researcher is really exciting:
“Six years have passed since my maiden voyage in the magnet. Since then, I have logged enough hours in the scanner to qualify for frequent flyer points. In the scanner, I have had orgasms through clitoral self-stimulation, orgasms through vaginal stimulation, cervical stimulation, and even orgasms through thought alone. I could think myself to orgasm without any physical stimulation even before I started studying sex. I attribute that ability to many years of intense yoga study.
But the only yoga I do these days amounts to a few forward bends in the shower. I am a woman obsessed with my work. There is nothing that can kill the buzz like thinking too much about what is happening in your brain while you are having sex. If I ever write a memoir, it will be called A Watched Orgasm Rarely Boils.”
Feature image: Rafaela Avidago via curly essence
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i’m going to be extremely articulate & just, uh, stare at the pictures (the second one. hnnNNGHGHGGHhhh okay i’m sorry i’ve embarrassed myself now oh god)
interspersed with Extremely Mature giggling at the vagina toaster. it’s a very abstract vagina, don’t you think? if you needed to get out of tight spot, you could probably try & say it’s like, a fire pokemon toaster? the Georgia O’Keeffe toaster?
Good god. That short haired megababe. I’m way too turned on to be at my parents house.
My friend showed me a picture of the vagina toast from a slight distance and (8 years of Catholic universities and 18 years of super religious family before that) I asked ‘is that a vagina or Our Lady of Guadalupe?’
I’ve been lurking on this site for a year+ now, and I thought ‘why not make my first official comment in the post with all the beautiful women pics?!’
The vagina toaster made me laugh out loud, and ask ‘why?’ And the woman in the last photo is gorgeous!
Huh. I did not know we had a drive through sex shop. I get paid tomorrow and I date someone with a car. This can only end very well. :P
I’m surprised that rich people have better sex because I can think of no better cold night poor girl activity than knocking boots for hours. Keeps you warm and it keeps the gas bill down.
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Um, this right here: Also try making your partner ask permission to orgasm. Never done but I swear, every time I read it, whether in fanfiction (yes, dirty fanfiction) or on this site, my whole body is just switched on. Jesus.