My High School Bully Is Happier Than Me

I fantasize about exposing her and getting her cancelled.
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A girl who lightly bullied me for being gay in high school came out as an adult and is now I think trying to be an influencer. She got married last year, she has a beautiful home and they clearly have money. She does GRWMs. I just went through a bad breakup and am living with my parents and I spend way too much time stalking her on social media and simmering with bitterness. I fantasize about exposing her and getting her cancelled even though she’s not even popular enough to get cancelled, and it’s not like I want her to be popular, and I don’t even believe in cancelling people as a practice!  Why am I doing this to myself and how can I stop?
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