Welcome to the million billionth installment of Make A Thing,  where people stop being polite and start getting real. I’m just kidding, this is the most polite column and we make handmade gifts for people! Or ourselves. Or our cats. Mostly our cats. 

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I haven’t written to my Autostraddle penpal in awhile (Hi, Katy! I’ve moved twice, I’m so sorry) but I still long for handwritten letters showing up in my mailbox. Sometimes those letters involve dinosaur stickers. Sometimes they involve lovely stationary. Everyone loves getting personal mail, it is a fact of life, along with the realization that everyone loves kittens and Orange is the New Black. It’s just something we accept.

Additionally, giving someone a card or letter is an extremely personal gesture, as it’s basically telling someone their words are worthy of leaving their brain and coming to you in tangible form. Or, perhaps, you just think your girlfriend needs to write you more love notes. Ain’t no shame.

Handmade Envelopes and Cards

I wanted to make handmade envelopes because 1) all of my envelopes are boring white or ivory, 2) most of the people I care about in the world don’t live in my town and deserve to be caught up with not over text or email but by handwritten love notes, and 3) I think they make a lovely gift. They’re extremely easy to make, but they’re impactful in their simplicity – easy but thoughtful. What more could you want in a gift?

Supplies Needed:
+ Pretty paper (I used standard scrapbook paper)
+ Envelope of the size you like
+ Pencil
+ Scissors
+ Glue
+ Cardstock

Level of Difficulty: My three-year-old niece is learning French in school and her new thing is to ask, “What is that word in French?” And usually I have no freaking idea, but I know it doesn’t matter because she won’t remember it but lying to her about French instills a lot of guilt in me. So this craft is easier than coming up for a French word for “Totally!” at 3am when she wakes up crying in the middle of the night because she wants her water bottle refilled.

1. Find an envelope of a comparable size to what you’d like your new envelope to be. Take it apart and trace it on the back of your pretty paper.

2. Taking the envelope, outline the top section. It occurred to me after doing this that I could have just used the regular outline from the piece and moved it down slightly rather than tracing a whole new outline an eighth of an inch away from the actual borders. So, you could just do that, I suppose.

3. Trace your top section onto the piece of paper.

4. Cut it all out!

5. Glue the top sections onto the inside top flaps of each envelope. I chose to do this in complementary patterns, but you can match your patterns up if you’re really feeling partial to that way of life.

5. Fold your envelopes in along the inside lines, creating a rectangle in the middle. You know, like a regular envelope.

6. I kept my envelopes pressed under a heavy book (jsyk, 1Q84 is perfect for this mission, thanks Murakami!) for an hour or two to make them super flat and nice.

7. Glue along the inside edges of the bottom flaps.

8. I traced the matching card to my envelope onto cardstock to make matching cards for my envelopes. Cut those out, fold them in half, and decorate them.

You’re done! Close your envelopes with glue, tape or a sticker and voila! They’re ready to send on out.

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