Into the A+ Advice Box #74: HOLIGAY ADVICE

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Welcome to the 74th edition of Into the A+ Advice Box, in which we answer all the queer and lesbian advice questions from A+ members who submitted their queries into our A+ ask box! Here, we answer your questions in a space just for A+ members, safe from the general public. (No guarantees regarding your ex, however.) Here, the Autostraddle team’s doling out advice on everything from sex and relationships, to friend and family dynamics, career questions, style, and more! We’re doing this column TWICE a month, now.
Every SECOND A+ Advice box of the month is themed, like this one! NEXT month's theme is ENVY/JELOUSY.  Are you envious of friends, a coworker? Coping with jealousy in a relationship? Envious of wh...

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