Did you know that Goodnight Moon — like our beloved Baby-Sitter’s Club — was written by a queer woman? I know, me neither! But today The New York Post ran a review of Margaret Wise Brown’s new biography, In The Great Green Room, and the whole thing is just harrowing and delightful and best of all it talks about how Brown was bisexual and wrote the poem that inspired her most famous children’s book while pining for her longtime on-again/off-again girlfriend, Blanche Oelrichs (the acclaimed writer and playwright who went by the pen name Michael Strange).
During one breakup, as Brown recuperated from a broken heart and a surgical operation at her house in Maine that she lovingly referred to as “The Only House,” she wrote a poem about a girl who moved from the country to the city and to soothe herself imagined her old room. The poem became Goodnight Room. Years later, while back in Strange’s arms, the poem returned to her in a dream along with images of her downstairs neighbor’s apartment — its bright green walls, red furniture with yellow trim. The result was Goodnight Moon.
You should read the whole piece; its very good. Highlights include:
+ Brown was a supergenius who wrote her many, many, many beloved children’s books on, like, the back of a lift ticket on the way to the top of a mountain, or on the back of a receipt on a jaunt out to the grocery store.
+ She was such a supergenius that she spent her royalty checks on things like an entire truck of flowers because she knew her next idea/paycheck was just around the corner.
+ She didn’t love kids (though neither did Seuss or Dahl).
+ After her girlfriend died, she wrote of her: “One who has dared to be gloriously good and gloriously bad in one life. No limbo for her.”
+ Brown herself died like a queer TV character. No joke. She recovered from an emergency appendectomy and when the nurse told her she was free to go, she “kicked off her sheets with characteristic enthusiasm” and it knocked a blood clot loose in her leg which killed her that same day.
Goodnight Moon has sold millions and millions of copies, about 800,000 per year since the early ’90s. It makes everyone’s list of best children’s books. The New York Times was still extolling its virtues in an op-ed that ran just two years ago! Not bad for a 68-year-old picture book that started as a sad gay love poem.
It is wild how every woman on earth who’s been out there getting shit done all this time has also been out there being gay as a window. Or a great green room. Or two little kittens. Or a pair of rainbow mittens.
so. like. if the author is bisexual Im pretty sure that makes it a bisexual love poem. no?
A lot of bisexual people use the word “gay” and “bisexual” interchangeably.
I was gonna be a smart-ass in the comments and say someone was going to do this. Then decided, “Naw, I’ll be good and maybe I’ll be surprised.” First comment. Bam. :P
Joanna, didn’t we JUST have this conversation over on the A+ article? My god, people are so predictable.
Oops, just realized you don’t have A+. Either way, I was just talking about this with some other people on that article just this morning.
I was gonna let it slide so you didn’t feel bad. :D
I will once I’m not flat-broke!
I’m bi, I know where you’re coming from (erasure sucks) but it’s good to remember that gay/lesbian are also adjectives that describe something same gender. Gay love poem just means it’s between two women.
That’s pretty much the definition of erasure, though.
People using language in such a way that the only alternatives are “gay” or “straight” is a textbook example of erasure. The intent can be good—some people clearly feel that “gay” is inclusive of bisexuals, though that’s hardly the consensus—but erasure is still the effect the words have when they go out into the world. By this standard, a bisexual is always engaging in something that is either heterosexual or homosexual. Short of having multiple partners of different genders, there is nothing a bisexual can do that is an expression of bisexuality. Hardly anyone has to ever be confronted with the existence of non-monosexuals.
Which is why I personally prefer to use terms like “same-sex” or “different-sex”. I don’t demand that everyone do the same, and I understand that there are situations where “same-sex” or “women who love women” are not useful substitutes for “lesbian” (e.g. SEO matters), but that’s my personal solution for it.
I have such a long history with this book–the copy at my parents house is all weathered from the hundreds of bedtime readings and re-readings.
I’ll have to call my mom up and tell her that my lesbianism was her fault after all.
She was an alumna of my school, Hollins University!
Hollins is SOOOO gay.
Fellow Hollins grads, yes!
Ah, yes. Oddly, most people don’t know that the first draft actually read:
…And a comb
And a brush
And a bowl full of mush
And a BISEXUAL LADY TYPE
whispering, “hush.”
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So relevant to our interests: just-discovered transcript of a conversation had by the interior decorators of the Goodnight Moon nursery
http://www.theuglyvolvo.com/issues-goodnight-moon-bedroom/
Seriously you guys, read this. It is soo amazing if you are familiar with the book.
This is the best! I haven’t laughed so irrationally hard since two monks
This is actually one of my favorite things. A good laugh is often needed
Aww, this is a cool new fact to break out at parties!
Also, Heather, please never stop using “gay as a window”. It makes me so happy every time I read it.
also, alternatively, “queer as glass.”
“Gay as a window” just makes me think of tiny, enraged Emily Fitch ranting about her right to be gay and go down on Naomi as her mum is waxing a lady’s lady parts. <3
No joke, this was my favorite book as a toddler. I’ve been told I used to yell at my grandpa when he tried to skip pages. And now I just told my mom about this story and she goes, “maybe that’s why you liked it so much.”
Clearly the first children’s book I’m buying when we have kids. Thanks, Heather.
DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. You will receive at least seven copies as gifts within your child’s first year.
This is true. Wait until after you receive gifts from friends/relatives to buy it.
I think you’re over-estimating how many friends and family I have, QG. :P
Joanna, I swear, once people have kids, this book starts multiplying like the Runaway Bunny himself :)
y’all, she was the first famous person i knew who had my birthday & i loved goodnight moon so much growing up, lol, my root.
My favorite has always been The Runaway Bunny, but I will look upon Goodnight Moon with a new appreciation. Thanks Heather.
as a gay librarian, i… already knew this.
i love making subtly themed queer author displays with goodnight moon and where the wild things are, throw some frog and toad in there. the theme could be best classic children’s books ever OR classic children’s books by queer authors (depending who asks).
Was Arnold Lobel also queer?!
THE WHOLE GODDAMN WORLD IS QUEER APPARENTLY
(And obviously I approve)
This NYT article is aces:
http://www.newyorker.com/books/page-turner/frog-and-toad-an-amphibious-celebration-of-same-sex-love
Childrens books by lgbtqia authors would be a great Goodreads list, just saying
A thought:
Is the age of subtlety over? What would happen if, above that display, you put a sign that said “Children’s LGBTQ+ Authors” ? Would your job be safe?
Because subtlety is what made me think, as a child, that the world was straight as a senate hearing.
?
I wouldn’t lose my job, probably. I worked in a school library in a Pentecostal community, where one of the teachers expressed dismay at a display “promoting” homosexuality (one of the new books on display was two boys kissing). A kid was in the library when she did it, which was no good. For the gay display that followed, I opted to leave it without a label for the adults, and just dropped the information on kids who came in. Students don’t read signs anyway, haha.
Gotcha :-D
I wish I could give you 10 thumbs up, but alas I’m only allowed to give you one.
I don’t know this book and have mostly heard its name in the smooth Shivaree song from the soundtrack of Kill Bill, but will check it out!
Would 100% watch a Margaret Wise Brown x Blanche Oelrichs Netflix original series.
Also– “In a letter to her college alumni newspaper in 1945, she wrote derisively: ‘How many children have you? I have 50 books.’ ” <3 <3 <3
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Wow..that explains why I was obsessed with that book for like 4 years. #hindsight
That’s my 17-month old niece’s favourite book. Hmmm…
I read this book to my kids every single night. It was my fave before I knew this, but this is icing on the cake.
I’m reading a biography about her. I knew she was a bisexual, but the most important thing was she the first real picture book author. In her day, the medical people didn’t know that lying down for too long can cause blood clots. I didn’t know it either until I was dead for a few minutes after I jumped up ant went to get my hair done after being sick in bed for several days. It’s called a pulmonary embolism. If you get sick, get up and move.