This review of Emilia Pérez was originally published as part of our TIFF 2024 coverage.
I do not think only trans people can tell trans stories. Alice Júnior is one of my favorite trans movies, The Cow Who Sang a Song Into the Future is another. Veneno is not only one of my favorite trans shows but one of my favorite works of art in any medium ever.
I do not think only trans people can tell trans stories, but I’m curious when we will cease to be a metaphor. I’m curious when cis people who are fascinated enough to make movies about us will also be fascinated enough to learn anything about us.
There are many bad movies made by cis writers and directors about trans women. But you’ve never seen a bad movie about a trans woman like Jacques Audiard’s Emilia Pérez.
And that’s something, right? Whether made by us or about us, I want more trans stories that are audacious, ambitious, and new. The problem with Emilia Pérez is that while it’s new in some ways it’s very, very tired in others.
The film hits just about every trans trope you can imagine:
1. Trans woman killer
2. Tragic trans woman
3. Trans woman abandons her wife and children to transition
4. Transition treated as a death
5. Deadnaming and misgendering at pivotal moments
6. Trans woman described as half male/half female
I’m not offended by anything on that list. It’s not about offense or something being not allowed. It’s that it’s boring. I don’t understand why a movie that’s so bonkers in other ways chooses to undercut its strengths with this shallow understanding of its titular character.
And it is bonkers in ways I enjoyed. The movie is a musical — an opera, really — about Rita Moro Castro (Zoe Saldana) an under-appreciated lawyer in Mexico who is granted a once in a lifetime opportunity when a drug kingpin (Karla Sofía Gascón) kidnaps her for an usual request. She has secretly been on hormones for two years but for some reason despite an absurd amount of money and resources cannot access surgery. Enter Rita who finds her a surgeon willing to do what I’ll call a Skin I Live In aka a one-stop surgery shop where she gets FFS, top surgery, and bottom surgery all at once. (Yes there is a musical number where the word vaginoplasty is sung.) Rita also agrees to whisk away Emilia’s wife (Selena Gomez) as Emilia fakes her own death.
Where the film goes from this initial hook is an endless surprise and that’s one of the film’s true delights. Another is that Emilia has a romantic subplot with a woman unsubtly named Epifanía (Adriana Paz, the standout of the cast). Less delightful? Their romantic song begins with Emilia referring to herself as “half he, half she.”
This is the entire experience of the film. A wonderful awe is felt during a musical number or when the film allows its trans character to act in ways we rarely see on-screen. And then a line of dialogue will be said or a narrative choice will be made that feels at best an eye-roll and at worst a gut punch.
Emilia Pérez is a glorious disaster. Not since Xavier Dolan’s Laurence Anyways has a trans film been so bold and so boring all at once. But it’s been over a decade since that film and my patience is waining. Certainly, this shallow understanding of trans people can’t still be interesting to cis people. How many times do cis people have to learn about us before a portrayal like this one rings as false to them as it does to me?
Ultimately, I’m not here to say what is realistic and what isn’t realistic. I am only one trans woman with my own set of experiences — none of which involve being a closeted drug kingpin. I will not say that Emilia’s understanding of herself is inaccurate. There are lots of different trans people in the world with lots of different trans experiences. But I’ve seen this one already. Not the drug kingpin part or the singing part, but the rest of it. And I’m so fucking bored. How can a movie with a vaginoplasty song feel this unoriginal?
On the surface, Emilia Pérez is unlike anything you’ve ever seen. But at its core, it holds an immense lack of curiosity. What appears to be a feast is really three-day old leftovers sitting out in decay.
Emilia Pérez is now streaming on Netflix.
1) Selina Gomez in unexpected places is delightfully amusing to me
2) in a vacuum (if I had not just read the rest of the review) operatically singing the word ‘vaginoplasty’ has strong musical episode of greys anatomy vibes? In the unexpected musical topic department?
I can say with a decent degree of self assurance that I will never watch this movie. and if I did I would be unlikely to be able to sit though it; but I have very much enjoyed your recap!
Ive only heard negative reviews from white non-hispanic trans women and can’t wait to hear some from queer Hispanic poc. And I’m not commenting to argue how good or bad this movie is but more as to why white queers need to understand how queer movies appear in poc spaces.
I think white people forget even if it’s an overdone trope, we don’t often get that type of media for poc. For me, I dont watch queer media if theres not at least one person of color in the lead couple. And even then, my first choice is always two poc.
As a black american lesbian I rarely get black lesbian media that doesn’t center a black x white couple. And I will eat it up every time when its two poc. If Emilia Perez came out with an all black cast I’d watch the same story again.
While watching this with my hispanic trans wife, she was reflecting on her life as a transwoman and we talked about queerness within poc society. We only started watching it because we heard there was a lesbian/trans couple.
Overall I’d rate this movie a 6/10.
Does a non-trans Mexican lesbian’s opinion count? Independently of how this movie handled trans storylines and experiences, something I am unable to have an informed opinion on. As a Mexican and POC queer, this movie made me so angry. The way it handles cartel violence tropes is irresponsible, the fact that it is set in Mexico but shot in a soundstage in France is bad enough but the dialogue is clearly not written by someone who speaks Spanish. The things the characters say sound so outlandish, it’s like someone wrote them in French and ran them through google translate. It is honestly so insulting. The only reason I can explain as to why anyone would be okay with this movie is that they are neither Mexican nor native Spanish speakers.
I sang a lot of vaginoplasty songs – extemporised and filthy ditties to counteract the tedious post-op routines.
I loved this movie so much – I went in incredibly open not knowing a thing about it and I think it really helped to receive it in that way. I do believe if I had known even that it was a trans story it would have been trampled by the weight of my expectation. But instead I honestly sat there in awe and loving every second.
I agree with a lot of your points about harmful tropes – but as someone who believes deeply in rehabilitative justice and abolition (and a trans person) I suppose Emilia being a killer (and some of the heavier aspects of her journey) were to me the whole reason for the exploration (and thus the film). Also, I know plenty of trans women and men who do define themselves in ways we may consider outdated. This doesn’t mean it’s wrong, however, I do think there is an interesting point brought up here surrounding whether cis people aren’t bored by these stories. I find this nuance to be more interesting, not selling the one narrative but showing more. But idk.
**SPOILERS AHEAD**
Personally I revelled in all of it. The joy, the music, the space and time given to her story. The fact that she had a whole life full of transformation, transcendence, love and beauty post-transition. However I HATED the ending. The notion that for a narrative to be complete someone who has broken the law must die. The idea of fated tragic endings for trans folks, for criminals. I disliked all of it, and it left a bitter taste in my mouth.
But I am still left with a wondrous feeling from the film itself.
This movie is… A straight, white, French guy writing and making a movie about a Mexican trans drug lord and shot in France with no Mexican actors. If it were made by a straight, white, American man it would’ve been cancelled immediately. And the music is children’s theatre quality at best.
Not only is it terrible in regards to trans representation, but its also pretty racist. We Latin American and specially Mexicans have suffered from the pain of narco culture taking away our loved ones and not letting us leave in peace. This idiots just decide to profit from our pain and suffering. Depicting us just as nothing but bad stereotypes. The acting was beyond disgusting, specially Selena she can’t speak spanish, its painful to watch.
I enjoyed it. Was it Chicago? No. It wasn’t even a bad episode of SVU but for a rainy Saturday, it entertained.
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I happened to watch the movie in two parts, stopping right after Emilia decided to set up her non-profit. Up to that point I quite enjoyed it. I could forgive the criminal trans woman trope as it seemed that they were setting up a character growth arc fueled by her transition. I found a lot of the struggles she had with reconciling and integrating her two lives quite relatable. When you transition late in life, it takes many years to resolve that! Also I thought the vaginoplasty song was hilarious with its bizarre absurdity. Not to mention terrifying. Doing all those surgeries in 5 years was hard enough for me– I can’t imagine doing them all at once! Overall, I honestly left the first half feeling pretty optimistic about the movie.
And then came the second half. She completely fails to reconcile her lives and sinks into a “half she, half he” view of herself. She never learns how to navigate the world as a woman. Like come on girl how do you not know how to gush over Jessica’s engagement properly?? And then she completely crashes out over the marriage and the kids leaving, which totally undercuts the narrative of growth and transformation. She should have grieved privately– she knew this was a very likely possibility. Instead she tries to control the situation as if she were still a kingpin. It’s like the narrative threw away everything I appreciated about the first half in that one moment.
And then at the end we kill our gays. Never seen that before.