First Person
Recent First Person posts
When Passing Isn’t Impossible Anymore
I Don’t Love Gay Marriage but I’m Officiating My Friends’ Gay Wedding
Growing Up Queer With a Narcissistic Mother Was Its Own Special Hell
I Had an Affair With My College Dean
I’ve Spent a Lot of Time Pretending Not To Know What I Want
Untethered: Between the Mobile Dungeon and the Infamous Adult Store, Longing for a Safe Third Space
One Year Being Out as a Trans Woman in Texas
Untethered: Visiting Other Peoples’ Families and Unhinged Horse Lesbians
How I Listen to True Crime After Knowing a Murderer
What Drag Has Taught Me
Untethered: I Can’t Stop Talking About Money
As a Trans Woman Getting Into Stand-Up Comedy, Can I Avoid Jokes About My Identity?
Five Years Ago, Lesbian Visibility Day Was the Best Day of My Life
Marrying a Divorced Person Awakened Unexpected Insecurities in Me
How ‘Booksmart’ Helped Me Come Out as Nonbinary
Untethered: How Do You Know You’re Living Where You Want To Be?
Untethered: The Lesbians of Shinjuku Ni-chōme, Tokyo
Et Tu, Laura Ingalls Wilder?
